Love:are we fooling ourselves sometimes?

It is true. In real life there are very less things that we can say are true love. At many times we say it is true. May be we are too emotional or too devoted.

True love has it's foundation in trust and friendship. Many people believe that 'true love' is based on passion. It's not, but reversely passion is a part of true love. When you're with some one for a long period of time, I really think that you are constantly falling in and out of love - with the same person. It's the trust and friendship underlying it all, that is the glue that keeps the 'true' in the 'love'.

I am starting to believe that I am fooling myself in thinkin that there could be someone out tere that would love me the way I want to be loved, but I also do not want to settle for less than what I deserve.

I am not agree where is no love sp there should not be argue of true love or false love, there is no false love, love is always true and who are using it in which ways it depends upon on the behaviour of person

Well, I can't say all lies. Maybe they don't want any choice. Some guy try to find happiness to other woman. That's there comes the word "third party". Some divorse and some just keep the relationship. It's all about choice. Every yes or no has result and every one of us are making it everyday.

I agree with you to a certain extent however, there are alot of cases when people just end up coming to the conclusion that they are better off to stay with a person for the better of the family. When there are children involved, it's better to have both parents present than to be separated. Even though it would seem as if they are living a lie, ultimately both people are still quite happy based on the fact that the children. If it's a situation where there aren't any children involved, still there are times when people settle with someone because they have issues with rejection, and they figure if this one person fully execepts them no matter what, then why bother looking for someone else...even if their feelings aren't really that strong.

i agree with you.. that kind of love though is one way... i believe many of us are in love and just shows our love in different ways.. the man in your example may seem to be cold and is always receiving the love, but i think it can also be put in another way like he loves the lady and is working for them, etc.

I think sometimes we are fooling around ourselves. Most times people falling in love doesn't agree with everything. Love means not to agree everything another person says and say I am happy with whatever the other person say or does. I think most people really do love their partners and children. It is a common to say amount the men that they don't love their wife or their girlfriend, but most of them doesn't really mean it. No men can think about leaving their wife or girlfriend when they are saying I don't love my girlfriend. I think most of them are happy, but doesn't show it.

I think this is sometimes true but not all, this is a reality but some is also not a lie.

it is really hard to find true love. people who were so madly in love and get to have some children will end divorced or separated after some years. it is really alarming how people will just forsake their partner. what seems to be an inseparable couple will just one day decide to separate ways. seems to be some problems just build up or adds up over time.

"It's better to have love and lost than never loved at all." What many people don't understand is that love is a choice.

love means sacrifice.if we want to make a happy couple,we must learn to tolorate,what is true love?every one of us have our own minds.there is not almost the same.so true love is only ideal.sometimes in order to make a family or something else,we live together with a partner.life is life.don't be too serious.right?

its very hard to define wats true love... its endless...deepest n hrdest emotion of hearts..

Happy life is learning to love what you have and how to get what you need, i think. I think we can do some things to get on well with our partners, but sometimes we can't do anything for a kind of feeling, the feeling of love.but maybe there are diffirents kinds of love. Some time, it depend on youself, what is your need, or what kind of life or love is your need. Sometimes people only love the face of love, can we see the deep of love?