Do you know what you want.........

I made a mistake once and I cannot undo it now. Relationship wise, if you want to venture into a relationship for longterm, both of you have to be friends, share common interest, do not date someone whose self esteem is low or who does not have a goal to achieve in life when you want to achieve great things it just will not work. Socialise a lot, talk to people, be nice to people and soon someone will show an interest in you. Also do not date anyone that always agrees with what you say or do, he or she will not be able to hold an opinion on anything that you ask. Never be littled yourself, think positive all the time, think of yourself as a great achiever and you will surpass any mountain that is in your way. On the job or business side, find out what you want to do, what kind of job you are good doing, get yourself certified or qualified if you are not then send your application to the various companies who you want to work with or better still, create employment for yourself. If you have a skill you can sell your skill or talent (that is called services) to others who will pay you in return for your services. For example, if you can type well, set up a Professional Typing Services and charge a fee for work done, of course you will have to make your services known. There are a lot of positive things that you could do that could bring some success and satisfaction to your life. I do hope I am making sense here, and that it is applicable to your situation.

Life is unpredictable and as such do not always go the way we want it to, but we should be flexible and be able to make adjustments where necessary in order to survive anything challenge. The most important thing is that when we get knock down it is the ability to get up and start again that counts.

Thanks for analyzing me my friend but I want to hear from your side in this way I may know and do a little comparison on my part.....

well, thanks alot..I still have to learn to do this planning stuff...!! how can one make plans alone..?? more so i m finding it hard to either move on or stick with the situation..

well planning is really easy for me my friend its the doing it that is hard but if yiu take one step at a time you will be able to achieve your plans in life remember you wont go that far if you are not able to make a single step to your goals...

one things for sure dont drdivu that I learned in life make your own plans for now and dont expect to much into your relationship start making plans for yourself first then you will see lots of opportunity will knock into your door.

well, i too wanna get married at 25 or 26..parents want me to get married now sometime..!! I m just 23 right now..dating a guy who still is studying and if possible pls read up my story part 1 and part 2..going thro strange nature of things right now...

yeah things can happen in life the least we expect them to happen that the beauty of it all what lies ahead is a mystery to us all.

thanks for the complement yanyinju care to share more about what you want in life and your life right now...

thanks on sharing your views nekna and I too believe on what you say but for now I continue to learn everything maturely in what life has in stored for me.....

Yeah this is true anything can happened and what your are saying has a bit of truth but if you have this opportunity would rather just leave your life and dont try to control over it?

yes there are something that we can't control over.but that doesn't mean life is just life .we can change it to some extent. so tasting life ,changing life.

yeah you can do better than what you have right now my friend that's the beauty of life

Oh sorry to hear about that my dear....Just curious why didnt he told you this when you where still not married that he dont want any kids?

wow I am happy for you my friend for finding what you want and you are not afraid to make that first step towards what you want. just curious what is that drastic decisions that change your life if you dont mind me asking.. I really do want to know how you made it so far ..I am happy for you for finding contentment and happiness.pls do share more i am interested on your story...

Your the type of women who want to be in control in life but takes joy on what lies ahead.....your husband is the exact opposite of you and this will balance your relationship my dear....good luck on your dream and may they all come true.

I also believe in this my friend but since I am a grown up person and can handle this maturely everything I want would somehow come to me for it would depend on how much you wanted that thing to be yours or that plan to be realized.Just one step at a time.

Its nice for you to share your joys in life my dear and I am happy you are happy with what life had offered you hope you will have many good years to come with the your love ones.... yes life is great and it has lots of things to offer you ......

life always move on my friend even if you just sit there still it moves even if sometimes I want time to stop but I have no such power to stop time but what ever that is that you luck in your life I really do hope that one day you will find what it is....

Yup you are right their wxo200345 but sometimes people make plans for their long term goals and forget how to do about it they are so into it that they forgot how to go about it that would lead their plans to be only a dream... they forgot to take make short term goals in order for the long term goal to be realized....this is the usual mistakes of every goal achievers... I am glad to hear your aiming for a higher goals in life good luck my friend I know you'll make it to the top if not to the top to the level in which you are happy......

its easy to plan but make sure to do something about your plans so it would be realized its the doing that is though.