Love...???
By megh4u
@megh4u (372)
Alpharetta, Georgia
April 2, 2009 9:05am CST
I am 22 year old and I just want to know what is love and how can we define it, all of my friends have girlfriends and they always tell me that they are in love with that girl, I don't have any girlfriend and I don't know why it pappen to them, what is the cause, my friends says to me you don't have girlfriend that's why I don't know, Is it necessary to have a girlfriend to know about love I do have some friends who are girl.
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Apr 09
Love is when you start thinking about the other person instead of yourself. It is opening up your heart to another human being. Wanting them to be happy and cared for above your own wants and needs. Like a mother who cares for her children and lets her own wants go by the way side for a time. Love is not wanting someone to just do for you and being selfish. Never is it selfish.
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@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
3 Apr 09
Thanks for giving me some tips about it and now I can think that it is a bit understandable to me after you have provide such a great tips now I can able to reply my friends who try show there superiority thanks for helping me....it was really a mystry to me but now It is begain to solve.....Thanks again for all that...suggestions
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
10 May 09
Love is selfish too, or should be.
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@shiwangipeswani (613)
• India
2 Apr 09
Hi meghu
first of all having girl freinds is not the meaning of love,and secondaly concentrate on your studies and career ,buddy ,your whole life is their for such things.
@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
3 Apr 09
Ya, that's right I have to concentrate on my studies but right now my exams are over and I have nothing to do instead of roaming with my friends, internet and gaming these are some major work to do these days, I take of time for novels and some e-books related to my next year subject....
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@valerieanne (811)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I don't think there is a true definition of the word Love. It's a feeling.
For me, it's knowing I can't be without the person. I want to make them happy. I want to be with them.
@katsalot1 (1618)
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2 Apr 09
I don't think it is possible to know what love is if you haven't got somebody to fall in love with, and even then it's tricky. Plus there are many different types of love.
@nobzbiz (16)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 09
I don't know what love means either. I have a girlfriend. When i say "i love you" to her it means i really care about her. I will sacrifice my hobbbies for her. That's it. You don't have to have a girlfriend to feel love that i describe.
Actually, do anyone believe terms "love at first sight"? I think that's nonsense. Love (care) cannot pop up just like that, it needs process, time, understanding. What's other feel about "love at first sight" maybe "like" or "desire".
Are you agree?
@cencenmaggie (45)
• China
3 Apr 09
It's hard to say when love comes. I think falling in love with sb. isn't love. The truth love should come from the latter time. As long as lovers pass lots of things, they can feel they are happy. Love is not the passion. It should come through any difficulties.
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@msplay20 (40)
• United States
3 Apr 09
Love is defined differently for everyone. However, I learned something very important a few years ago. If you have to ask yourself, "Am I in love?" then you probably are not. Love is just something that you know you have it when you have it. So, trust me, when you fall in love, you will know it.
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