if your brother has a girlfriend

I think it's much more important for your brother to find someone that he thinks is suitable for him. Our oppinion doesn't matter here. You can tell him about your doubts but it's himself who has to choose a life partner. I had a simmilar situation maybe half a year ago, but I kept it to myself, and after some time, I realized that that girl is not that bad at all.

honestly, i never take care of their relationship. but, I respect them... however, his girlfriend is his choise, he love his girlfriend very much , and it will be hurt him, if i talk something bad about his girlfriend. I love my brother, and i must take care his feeling.

I suppose I would let him know how I feel if I had a problem with someone he was dating but as logn as she made him happy I would not stand in his way.

hello there! well last year, my brother do have a girlfriend that i don't really like...haha what i do, is i tell it straight to my brother but in a way that i don't offend him...hehe i just tell him why i don't like her for him but i still respect his feelings and decision... and i try my best to be in good relation with his girlfriend... i ill never ask him something that will make him sad...i am here to support him in whatever decision he does, and i guess matters of the heart is something that i have to be off limits, coz i really never know how he feels... but well, i am not wrong on my perception to the girl...and i am glad that my brother saw it also after few months of being together...and no, they are already broke up and he has a new girlfriend again!

haha, my brother is gay so I don't have to worry so much about that. I probably would state my opinion but you have to deal with it cause that person could be in your life for a very long time and after all, your brother is the one that has to live with it day in and day out. If they love or care about this person at all, you will only drive him away from you.

Unfortunately this stuff happen to me.My choice is keeping silence cause my brother seems blessedness.I feel sick that my dear brother with that kind of girl but I can do nothing.

Personally, I don't think that I could. I just don't think it would be the right thing to do. Plus, i could justify it. I just don't think I could make myself do it, even though I wasn't comfortable with the person that my sibling was dating. It wouldn't fair for them.

No, not at all. I leave him be. There's no point in meddling with the relationship of my brother just because i don't like his girlfriend. Not unless it is obvious if she is just using him for her personal gain. But if he insist that he is happy with her, then there's nothing more i can do. I'm sure my brother is matured enough to handle himself well.