Good Bye Forever...

@prajnith (941)
India
April 3, 2009 5:59am CST
Have you ever come across a situation where you had to say GOOD BYE FOREVER to your loved one's or person whom you liked a lot .. well 2 days ago i finally said good bye forever to a girl i liked a lot.. i liked her a lot and wanned to have relationship with her but she didn't want any serious commitments.. i was going mad but i didn't want to irritate her so i said i have some problem i have to sort out and cant keep in contact with her and may be some day i will come back.. so she said OK..i really didn't know what was in her mind.. but i do miss her a lot..
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10 responses
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
i guess i did. i can't forget my first boyfriend and i will never forget him. i don't intimate feelings for him anymore, it's just that we had experiences together and some unforgettable things happened during our time. i know he'll never forget me too. :B when we were together, i never thought we will be separated but when we broke up, he told me he cant imagine being with someone after our relationship. so waited.. maybe, lets say, 7years after i heard that he got married.. so i guess that's a goodbye forever.. :B
@busyB4 (874)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Godbyes are painful if you really care about someone! I don't see why you couldnt still have a friendship , just back off from the more serious relationship with her
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
am even scared to have any new relationships as i don't want to come across goodbye... life is really complicated .. and we have to learn how to live life and face the pain and move on.. thank you for replying.. take care.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
According to others, "Absence makes the love grow fonder" mind you, saying goodbye to her would let her realized, she needs you, she might be longing to get in touch with you too. So leave it that way for few days. She might misses you too that when you see each other next time, it would mean happiness for you. Good luck.
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
wish she missed me but i doubt she does... the way she told me it was clear to me.. but it would have been so nice if she had .. thank you for your reply.. take care..
@drdivu (1011)
• India
3 Apr 09
hey..me saing same thing to my bf..its like we fight alot and on everything since one year now and he keeps saying me that he has more n more of bad memories than good ones with me even when i m trying to maintain this long distance relationship without the knowledge of my parents..Its really really hard to move on..I miss him too and feel like calling him up but dont want to, too........
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
but i guess life is all about how we take it.. i miss her a lot , i will be thinking of what she could be doing how she is, even if its been only few days.. i really don't know if will be able to forget her.. thank you for sharing your thoughts.. take crae.
@littleowl (7157)
3 Apr 09
Am sorry you have had to do this it isn't nice and if the girl you liked also was as keen on you then she will feel as sad as you...but the choice wether you do see her again is up to you..yes I ahve had to end a couple of relationships and it hasn't been nice and been very sad after doing it, but at the same time knew that it was for the best..maybe that is what you should ask yourself...blessings littleowl
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
i did it for her as she didn't wanned to have any serious commitments .. i miss her a lot but i will try to forget her... may be this is how life is .. it hurts but have to tolerate it and move on... thank you for sharing your feelings.. take care..
@Radiuz (47)
• Canada
3 Apr 09
You'll find a women just as special.
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
i considered her to be special, maybe day someday i will forget her.. thank you.. take care.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I had to finally say goodbye to an old bf who I was with for 12 years. There were many ups and downs during that time, more downs than ups. We actually broke up several years ago, but tried to remain friends. We were able to do that peacefully, but I found myself still giving more of myself to him when he would need me and him giving me the run around if I needed him. I had to let go of the idea that he is even a real friend. I think I miss him (calling him or just talking to him about what's going on in my life) more because I was so use to him but I am making much stronger an healthier relationships with other people so I am not wasting anymore precious time trying to make something work that was just not meant to be.
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
guess even i have to move on.. but these memories hurt a lot.. it feels so empty without her. hopefully i will be able to forget her. thank you for sharing.. have a nice day. take care.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
good bye is such a very difficult to accept. i think that sometimes that we will not able to accept things are over even after many years has passed. not every good bye will be better by the passing of time. some good byes will still hurt lot after so many years. i have said goodbye to many people before. i thought that my hurt will not get over them. but looking back i felt so foolish to ever felt that way back then. like how in the world had reacted so much that way before. i thought they were the ones for me. those people i thought i would never get over it are not that important for me now. if ever i will see them again it will not matter if they will greet me or not. but there is one person i really was not able to get over with. anyways, that was long time ago.
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
hopefully i will be able to forget her as i don't want to have any of her memories as it hurts a lot.. i sometimes feel its not fare.. but i guess this is how life is and i have to move on... thank you for sharing your thoughts.. take care.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
3 Apr 09
I feel sorry for you.Its heart_breaking to say goodbye forever to your loved one.Well,I hate to say the girl you liked a lot might not fancy you.She's not serious about your relationship.So,let her go.She's not made for you.Dont be too upset.Cheer up!
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
ya guess so but it hurts a lot .. but i just wish that she gave me one chance.. thank you.. take care..
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
nothing is constant in this world everything has to go but goodbye is not the end it doesn't me it's the end for goodbye for me promise a brighter tomorrow it may hurt like hell for now but you will see there will be another hello in the future.... I may be talking riddles here my friend but it's the way how I express my once upon a time goodbye to a girl I thought I can't leave without....goodbye is necessary for us to know the essence of missing a person....its part of life my friend all of us undergo through this be strong then this will make you a better person in the future......
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
i guess it hurt a lot when you said good bye as it hurt me a lot when i said the same.. thank you for replying.. take care..
@Gladys22 (416)
• Philippines
3 Apr 09
we haved the same situation now. 3 days ago my bf and me was saying goodbye to each other. will i love him but i felt he used me in her own needs. before we have a lot conversation he always texting me, going to my boarding house and always reminding me but lately he changed he does not care and he ignored my text. my queztion for him he doesn't replying. i told him why you are ignoring my text?? he said im not ignoring your text. one day he bross in my phone then he find out the name of two guys their. he question me regarding that. but i tell him this is not important to haved discuss cause this is useless, but he didn't listening to me instead he get the # and text him one by one. after that we decide to give up. it's hurt in my side cause he didn't trust me. i think he doesn't love me trully. he loves me only cause he had something desireds to me only one thing. which is so hurt. his promises tome always broken.
@prajnith (941)
• India
4 Apr 09
trust is one main thing that should exist in any relation ... relationships are so complicated and it hurts a lot going away from person you loved the most.. may be someday you will find someone who will truly love you and trust you.. thank you .. take care..