I had to give me dog Oreo away : (
@Linda4ualways (2282)
United States
April 3, 2009 6:20pm CST
Oreo is the third dog I had. See, my boys love having a dog in the house but they have a very hard time walking them. I finally said, look if you guys cant simply walk the dog, then we don't need the dog. But he is at my sister's house so we can see him whenever we want. That's the good part! : )
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@AngryKittyMSV (4317)
• United States
13 Apr 09
So you got a dog, and when your CHILDREN didn't take care of it you gave YOUR DOG away? WTF? Who is the grown up there? YOU got the dog, YOU are responsible for it, whether or not the kids do anything to help! How do you think that poor dog feels?
I see you also gave away a cat when it became inconvenient and are now looking to take in yet another animal which will likely be temporary. Please, for the love of all that is good in the world, DO NOT under any circumstances bring another poor innocent animal into your life that you will not care for properly!
When you bring an animal into your home, you are making a COMMITMENT to it for the duration of it's life to care for it and provide for it's needs. If you are not mature enough to hold up your end of the commitment, you are just being CRUEL to these innocent creatures who think they've got a home with you only to later be thrown away. STOP GETTING ANIMALS UNLESS YOU WILL ACTUALLY CARE FOR THEM!!!
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@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
14 Apr 09
how old are your boys?
I am guessing that they are under 18 right?
you make it sound as though they are children and you are supposed to be the responsible adult
I say supposed to be because it sounds very IRresponsible of you to keep getting pets that no one wants to take care of and then throw them out like garbage when you have had enough
If your kids want a pet but you know they arent responsible enough for one then you should be responsible enough to tell them NO
stop punishing animals for your kids' lack of responsibilty
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
4 Apr 09
I'm sorry that you had to give the dog to your sister but at least it was to your sister. I hope that eventually the boys will be responsible enough for a pet and that you'll be able to get either oreo back or start small with a fish. That is always what I suggest to other parents before they allow their kids to get something that is a lot more responsibility.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Hey Linda! You are really having a hard time! First Louie and
now Oreo! OMG! You are really going through alot! I feel so
bad for you! Please send me an email tomorrow so we can talk!
I see that you are really having a rough time right now with
the boys giving you grief and the animals that you had to
give up! You are really going through too much at one time!
Why don't you email me and we can talk or you can call me!
Oh, I forgot you're not working tomorrow! Maybe you can get
in touch with me on Monday. I have a doctor's appointment, but
will be home late in the afternoon. I would love to hear from
you. You can email me in the morning. I am not leaving until
about 1:00.
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@Linda4ualways (2282)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Hi there Opal!
I know you are surprised to see me here. Right now I am at my sister's house. I am going to take my computer to the shop for them to fix it. I miss talking to my friends here on mylot. I am going to send you my email through a personal message okay.!
Yes Opal, I am going through some things at the moment. I didn't mention the mess my older son got into. How he had me worrying about him but I will.
@OceanZealot (484)
• United States
4 Apr 09
That is a very good thing that your dog is so close to you so that you can still visit when you like. When I first read the title of this article I thought that you were writing about you having to put your dog down...Thankfully he is still around. Maybe your boys will come around the dog will be able to come home.