Do women agree to marry men because they are in love with the men or in love with their money?
By 2totallycool
@2totallycool (98)
Norway
April 3, 2009 9:32pm CST
Good morning everyone. I have seen lots of happyly married couples and in less than 3years, 6 of 10 of these marriages crash because the women think they are not getting the best as regards to luxury most especially when they got friends with rich husbands. What do you think. Please share.
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6 responses
@Francis30 (1)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
Based on the experience of my friend, his woman left him and marry a guy who has been financially stable for a long time. And what they've been thru in their relationship was amazingly wonderful because they were happy even thru hardships. But when the family of the woman (especially the aunties and uncles)advices the woman to marry a rich guy in order to be well secured financially in the future, so the woman left my friend. I definitely agree that the woman marries a rich guy not because of love but of money.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
14 Apr 09
That is so sad, francis. Money is important but it doesn't equal love. I don't judge people who seek for money because we all have different financial problems but as much as possible, people should think hard before marrying a person just for money.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
4 Apr 09
Dear friend,
I too had seen that more of women are taking their husbands to court and getting settled matters with compromise amount. But still there are also very sincere good lovable women. I do hope those who got such love from heart women are luckies people on this earth. May be todays world money has lots to do.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
4 Apr 09
hi
it depends-coz there are many woman who wud go out of way to marry a man whom she loves dearly,his financial status notwithstanding.but generally woman certainly prefer some sort of financial security and usually find financially well off man more attractive.i think mature women wud go for man with better financial status rather than looks.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
4 Apr 09
I think that it depends on the woman, in question. There are some, who marry for the money, others marry, because they're really in love. I don't think that all women, who marry for money, will actually admit it, but I don't doubt there are some women, who marry for the money of the man.
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
Marriage should be based on genuine love and mutual relationship. I don't agree that women marry only because of money, though there are some who consider marrying a wealthy man as a luxury and a breather, I don't believe this is the main reason.
@rahul84 (26)
• India
4 Apr 09
well i wont say that all of the woman marry just because they r rich .. but what i have seen most ..that given an option they wud choose a financially strong person .. this is wht i have seen in most of the cases and 1-2 cases in which the woman definitely stood by their parteners .. so i can say that ... well most of them wont agree bt yes they definitely did it for more money .... they wanted a rich life .. even though in hteir college days they hung out with other boys and broke their hearts to marry rih guy .. thts what i have seen ..so u definitely can say that u need money to call sm1 honey and there r few girls who would give consent to love and trust and mutual understanding