decision for marriage...

Sometimes persons find themselves in situation like this. Some will fight against it and make his/her life miserable. Sometimes if we forget about the circumstances surround the marriage and start to see the qualities about the person then harmony will develop and eventual love start to sweep in. If you are in this this situation I would advice you to forgive and forget about what had brought you in this lady life and try to see if there are any qualities that you will like in her. If after sometimes you don't see it then ask for a divorce but first try and see the real her.

first of all you must fight for your own decision. if it is family pressure well that is hard but you must fight for ur own.. explain it to them why u cant marry...but then if ur already married i guess u have to stay with it because ur already married and maybe u will accept the decision that ur family have done for u.