How would you feel, if you find out your ex. got married already?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
9 responses
@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
I would feel the same as you. I would not feel anything against it. For me when its over, its over and there's no turning back. Somebody deserves of my love and not my ex-bf.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Hi sunita, once is an ex. is already a past,and you have move on, her happiness is your happiness too. Anyway that person was a part of your life. You can't go forward if you don't have a backward. It give us mistakes to learn to, and improve life more. Anyway have a nice day to you1
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
4 Apr 09
well it just happend few days back ...the news first had mixed emotions but i gatehred myself and i am glad hes found someone nice and i also claled nad wished them lifes best..life goes on
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
4 Apr 09
There is no use crying over spilt milk. Nevertheless there was a tinge of sadness. There was no way the past could be forgotten with the flick of the thumb and forefinger. The things shared together, including dreams and plans for the future are not trivial matters.
I never take any relationship lightly, especially one where a full commitment has been made. So such news will affect me a bit. Fortunately I prefer looking to the future, and utilise whatever I have as best as I can.
all the best,
rosdimy
rosdimy@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Well for me memories that we spend it's always there with me. But I'll rather not be lonely but happy for her. Her happiness is my happiness also. Life has to go on, even were pretending that were not affected by a bit. It does!Maybe it wasn't really meant for me. Call it fleeting moments! Yes you are right that rather sulk just think best to come and that is thinking about the future. Have a nice day to you!
@jane188 (59)
• China
4 Apr 09
frankly , i will be sad seriously if i still love him . anyway i can't stand that he forget me totaly . on the other hand , if i do not love him , it is none of my business . lol, but it is really what i thought. after all anyone can't bear the one you loved belong to other forever.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Hi jane, well I will be shocked for a few moment, but maybe our relationship was not meant to be. But her happiness is my happiness too. Life has to go on for me, and now I am happy with my life. Maybe that is why I accepted it cause I have someone now that more deserving of my love. Have a nice day to you!
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
I'll be happy that finally he settled down and at last he will be more responsible enough to handle a lot of things. And beside it's already in the past and we have both move on.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
if I am into this situation and I havnt get over that person yet maybe it would hurt but if I already put my past behind us then I would be happy for her and wish her all the luck....everyone has to move on and I am happy you're happy now with your present girl my friend wishing all the best.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Hi HeScream, I think when you still feel something about the person, yes it hurts, but you will still wish and pray for her happiness. Yes your right that everyone has to move on, it's just a matter of time, and someone will come to your life who is right for you. Well it took me time, I was avoiding to fall in love again, but we both found each other on the right time. It was meant to be! Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
5 Apr 09
Well sometimes we think that life is unfair, that love was should be you not someone else. But the truth it it was not really meant for you. Accepting it sometimes is very hard! Why not me! Questions in the mind and in the heart. Anyway have a nice day to you!
