when your friend will go away..
By jingbautista
@jingbautista (2456)
Philippines
9 responses
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you my friend. surely i will do what you said. but as of now, i am still trying to accept the fact that he will be no longer on my side or be at the apartment. it will not be easy though, but i have to accept all this.. it is his destiny to do what he has to do..but the transition period is not easy...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
4 Apr 09
In school I learned that you lose friendships because of distance either they've moved or the two have drifted apart. I was taught that you can lose friends in elementary, middle, high or college, and drifting apart because of new relationships (romantic or otherwise) can be the biggest part. People change and that's a given, but whether friends can deal with the change is another thing.
Try to stay in contact with your friend, just because he is moving doesn't mean that you can't stay in touch, if you do your part to stay in touch and he does his, you can still be friends and maybe you'll never drift apart.
I hope that this was clear!
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@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
huhu.. it is hard my friend.. though he is still not moving, but the imagination that he is going away, is really bugging me down.. hope i could manage to stand up and move on...
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
you should be missing hinm fo0r a little time and when you get to be busy wth your work or your new school, your contacts with him will be lesser day by day. :D hehe happened to me! just wish your friend well and hope to see him more often when he comes home to your town.. :D
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
you are very right there!! how i wished to be busy right now with all the works. but it so happened that we will have two months vacation.. and i don't have any works right now. and i am with this self of mine to feel that he is moving awwy.. maybe because we are friends for many years right now, and it is not easy though.. and i am really hoping to be busy, then like yours, i will be able to be better in time...
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
5 Apr 09
Hi,
yes,U'll feel deserted for sometime.Ur heart will cry.
But as mature friend Ur feeling should not come on his way of Progress!
World is a village now,contacting him regularly is no issue.Only possibly physical distance will be there in between you.
Take an oath U'll remain as one mind with two bodies,till the time U both re-unite.
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you my friend.. and sooner, i will be able to cope up with all this. this is not easy though.. but i am really trying to cope up.. things are on its way right now.. next week, he would come and get his things and then leave.. then sooner, the next months, he would be really be gone and looking for his future. how i wished i could suggest that he would stay, but i could not.. i am not that good example to him..hmmm
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
They say once a friend always a friend for me I may feel a moment of missing but I would recover from that easily for I know my friend is moving on forward in life and will be achieving his or her goal and I would be very happy seeing her succeed in everything she do.
There is always a tomorrow in which you would see each other again and when that happen greater joy will overflow.....
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you.. but i still have to cope up with all this.. there are a time when i would want to be away from the apartment just not to remember him or that the fact that sooner or later, i will be mising him.. how i wish to stop all this...
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you .. and as of now, i will really try to be busy and not remember all this.. when he is not around, i am free, but when he is, it really bugs me down.. hmmm..
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
4 Apr 09
That is very tough situation you are facing. Departure of your friend is causing you to bare the pain of missing your friend. But you should justify that is the leaving of your friend in the benefit of your friend. If it is like so then you should not worry and you should sacrifice on cost of the friendship of your friend.
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you.. the pain is really not easy. as of now, i lose the communication between us. to think that he is leaving, really would leave me hanging and longing for him. it is not easy though.. but i am trying to cope up with the drastic changes that would soon take place. he is not at the apartment right now, so it is still fine.. but to think otherwise that sooner or later he would be gone, that really saddened me.. hmmm
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
hello my friend that is normal. people come and go in our life. we meet new friend and this friends that we have learn to love and lean on would leave one day. No matter how far you maybe with your friend the friendship stays. It would be hard at first but you will surely get the hang of it. Cheers up my friend be happy that in your lifetime you met a friend in him. Have a great day!!
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
thank you friend.. uhmm. the transition stage right now is really tough.. it is not easy my friend.. it is really not, but i am trying to cope up right now.. there are a lot of things i have to settle deep within me.. hmmm. i still have a lot to learn...
@merlibradley (407)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
I felt the same way when I graduated from college many years ago but as time passed by I learned that people come and go. You can still talk to your friend though coz of the technological advancements that we have. I agree that it's hard...but you will get used to it. You will meet different types of people, make friends with some, but there will come a time that the friend that you have needs to leave. Life's like that hehe. Good luck on everything Jing...enjoy life!
