How do you deal with a person jealous about your success? What will you tellthem
By ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
India
11 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
5 Apr 09
i try not to fool w/people like that. they are not your friends. i like to see anyone do well. jealousy will be the ruination of the world.
@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
5 Apr 09
well this is a good question , actually i dont talk to such people at all , i try to avoid to talk to them , but sometimes they r keen to no wht u have achieved and how , so i just give a clue to them that will create a mystery in their mind 4 a long time abt how i have reached my destination. i do this to teach them a lesson, and if they ask more questions , i dont give them the right answer , i give them answers wht they want to hear , sot they dont come to no any thing about me .lol
this is the best way of teaching a lesson to such persons.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Mar 12
I also think we have to avoid the person when they make some comments, which we do not like. The best way is to avoid things that we do not like is rather than talking back on things and hurting the feelings of the other person by saying negative, but sometimes we do have to say no to certain things in life.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Your turn will come with patience, persistance, and hard work. I was not successful at first. Jealousy is a waste of time and makes people even less successful.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
7 Apr 09
I don't think this is going to be a problem for me because no one would be jealous of me because I am not a successful person. I would not be telling them anything. Cheers!!
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
30 Jul 09
we cant always please everybody my friend. but as long as you are doing a good job and you deserve it. there is no need to be alarmed by what other people or co-employee may say or think about you.
we can say to them with please though they may still pull us down, whats important thing to do is never talk back to them and still be their friend no matter what had happened. if this issue really did matters much, then its still better to talk to them openly. and we can also help them out to be successful in their lives, right?! and just pray for the outcome of everything in your life and also specially to them. thats the best weapon we can have.
jhelai
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
9 Jul 10
Dont compare yourself with others. As success and dream are your own property and you dont see in others.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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6 Apr 09
It doesn't really matter to me whether somebody else is happy with my success. I do have a couple of really close friends I know will always be happy for me when I succeed though. Really, all that's important is that you're satisfied that you are succeeding, yourself, and that you're happy in your own achievements.
Brightest Blessings, my friend.
@youless (112511)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Apr 09
It reminds me some words which I read from someone's blog in the past: Don't think I won't succeed, as I am not another you. I appreciate this kind of confidence and I think the jealous people can learn from it.
I love China
@simplebee27 (129)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
I'll tell them that they should try and try until they succeed and just grab their opportunities. As long as i'm already satisfied with my success for what i've done.
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@alegnaluvu (660)
• Malaysia
6 Apr 09
Jealousy drains the joy, satisfaction and purpose out of living. If allowed to grow it breeds hatred and revenge. watch out! It's an appetite that's never satisfied. When I know someone is jealous of what hard work I have put into my life to reach my success, I will show him that my success did not grow overnight and share with her my secret of reaching the height I am now.
@robinsmathew4u (49)
• India
5 Apr 09
What I would do is if he is a good person and is jealous I woul try to help him bring him success.I will try to bring him to my Level .But if he is a jerk i would just ignore him.