I have a secret crush - How do I know he's interested?
By jazzyjess
@jazzyjess (199)
United States
April 5, 2009 3:14am CST
Okay, so I asked this guy, that I have a secret crush on, out for tea in May & he said he'd like to move the date sooner to April. I posted a question on here about that and the consensus was that we definitely meet for tea in April. Here's my next question: How can I tell if he's attracted to me? He could just be meeting for tea on a friendly basis... How can I tell if it's deeper than that? I don't want to scare him off. What do I do?
1 response
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
5 Apr 09
Hello, This is not only the speech that we communicate. There are various other means too. Say for example, when you are on tea observe his behaviour towards you. You know a friendly approach and an approach with a different intent differ, You talk to him this and that and see how much interest he shows. These are the indications.
Finally if you feel tell him frankly what you have to tell. It is not that complicated I guess.
@jazzyjess (199)
• United States
5 Apr 09
Thanks for the comment. I think you're right. Body language can say a lot. I talked with him again tonight about our tea date, as I was leaving and he held my hand for a moment - quite gently. And, again, he emphasized that he'd like to meet this month instead of next month. Subtleties like these make me feel like there could be more to this than just a friendship. I'm sure time will tell. Sooner or later, one of us will make a move and if we don't, perhaps it's not meant to be. The only reason I hesitate is because we really make a great team, I would hate to make him feel uncomfortable. I'd prefer friendship over nothing at all. But, certainly, I'd choose more than friendship, if I had a choice.
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