Do You Suffer in Silence or Do You Wear Your Feelings on Your Sleeve?

I don't want to suffer in silence. I always need a friend to comfort me. Someone i can share all my feeling. Its easy for me to let go if i share it with somebody.

same here. i kept silent when i am hurt. i cry on my own. just like now, i just recently got my heartbroken. i want to tell him how much pain he has given me. but i don't him to be hurt too, because party, our break up was my fault. but i want to let him know how i feel inside me. it is burning. turning me to ashes. i wish i can say everything to him in person. maybe, we should try to practice telling what and how we feel. they say, it is healthy that way.

Oh I am the suffer in silence types. I sm not open with my feelings. It judt doesn't feel comfortable doinh thst

I do a bit of both. The only way I am safe is to suffer alone, in the dark abyss of silence and seclusion - otherwise I'll be told to grow up or to get a life or to just flat out shut up. When I wear it on my sleeve, people will ask me what's wrong and it's just obvious that I feel bad. I will say nothing is wrong, but continue to suffer. Suffering is kind of a hobby of mine lol. I like to hide it for the sake of people around me. My therapist says my "brain waves" from some kind of scan detect some empathy thingy. I guess that means I can feel other people's feelings and feel it FOR them or something... which is also why I may suffer in silence. It's difficult to explain... But yea. MOSTLY in silence I'll suffer the tears of a thousand souls.

hi,the same feeling for me!I have worked outside from my hometown!You know China is very expansion.Now I work at South China,there is no friends and family here.I go back home once a year.I always review mylot when I am alone at the dormitory!I suggest you that ofen liten to the songs ,the dainty music can help you get away the bother! Thanks for your discussion!

Hello friend, I am of the type who does not show his emotions, come what may. I believe getting mad at someone or getting angry and doing foolish things like banging the plates on the floor or something like that is a waste of human time, emotions and energy. When I am sad, I keep it to myself. I never share it with anyone and I try to find out the solution myself. Even if I am angry at someone, I would not shout at the person. I would just stop behaving normally or talking to the person and would leave it upon him to realize that he has done something wrong.

well... seems like you are a very sensitive and caring person.. may curse be on those who make you suffer... happy mylotting...:)

I keep all the problems and sufferings to myself. I do not look for sympathy from others. Sometimes it is tough to keep silent. But I accustomed to it.