Does anyone find real love?

I was married twice also and then I found it. My 3rd husband and I have a great relationship and I consider myself blessed. There is such a thing as real love and if you are lucky enough to have it great. I don't believe what you look like has anything to do with it. It is all about you being ready to give of yourself and you being mature enough and knowing yourself. My first 2 marriages did not work in part because I was too young. Both people need to be ready when entering marriage. It is not enough if just one is ready. It takes two people who are truely commited to each other and respect and love and trust. It isn't easy to find but stop looking and it will happen.Making do sounds like a really sad way to go through life. I would rather be alone.