Why arent you happy?

thats good news.am glad that your problem has been rectified !!!life sure has given me my share of problems but then i have learned to have a positive attitude in life,its of no use to you or to anyone else to be moping around.

It depend, I think we need to relax and share with your friend, that's the best way!

Happiness and sadness along with other feelings are all a product of our mind and our ego. Our ego creates our individual identity and our mind which is nothing else but a conglomeration of our thoughts which keeps running continuously like the continuous frames of a movie.These thoughts when they run continuously on a single track form an idea which crystallises into action. sometimes we carry out the action and sometimes we don`t. Now in your case you carried out the action of wearing glasses because you had this thought of uneasiness due to your bad vision. Now you feel happy because your action has created harmony within yourself.Happiness does not depend on the action but on the state of the mind. If we learn to control our thoughts and ultimately our mind and become a mere witness to them ,then we will never feel happy or unhappy but we will get an equanimity which will make our life serene and calm.

Easier said then done! I have struggled to be happy over the years! It has been a up hill battle! When you grow up like I did it wasn't easy to be happy! My parents did little to nurture me so I grew up angry,sad and naive! I had to relearn to how to think differently and has taken years! At times I still struggle with happiness! I still feel I won't be truly happy until I am financeally secure now and for retirement! Sorry to say that won't change anytime soon!

There are good times,there are bad times, there is light,there is darkness, if u are happy everyday,, u will not enjoy it more,In my opinion,,u need the darkness of the night to appreciate the beauty of the BRIGHT DAY,I am happy,,I also enjoy the SAD times in my life,,I enjoy the fruit after I have worked hard for it,, its better to know what is sadness, to enjoy the happiness,, This is only my opinion,,I too wish everybody the BEST

There are people who are not happy because they don't have satisfaction in the lives.they were always craving of something they don't have without thinking of what they had.Me ,I'm totally happy of finding someone who loves me dearly and having a wonderful kids.Maybe I don't have wealth but i do have the greatest gift that God give me .MY FAMILY.hope you all fine your REAL HAPPINESS!!!!