the ocean trip

United States
April 6, 2009 8:31pm CST
I have been saveing my money for a year now I call it my go see the ocean money now what I want to ask is my husband don't really want to go I have always wanted to see the ocean this is one of my dreams before I die I really want to go but he doesn't so do I go and leave him here take the boy's and just go I know this wouldn't be nice but I really want to go this something I want badly I don't think he will be real happy with it but what esle do you do if he won't go....
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• United States
7 Apr 09
I would sit down and explain to him how much you want to see the ocean. Explain to him that you would rather him come with you but that you understand if he doesn't want to go. Let him know that since this is something you have wanted for sometime that you are going to go with the boys even if he doesn't want to go. Make sure when you explain to him that you don't make it sound like a ultimatium. I think your boys would enjoy seeing the ocean also.