how to gain traffic for my site?

First of all, it's better if you include your blog on your profile so you can promote it here for free. We can also view it in order to help you more. Anyway, there are a lot of ways to get traffic on your blog. You can try commenting on blogs, submit articles to article directories and to social bookmarking sites, joining social sites, guest posting, and forum posting. The best way to get targeted traffic is through SEO. This can be achieved through keyword optimization and getting tons of back links. However, it is all about sharing original and useful information. Otherwise, you will not really get targeted traffic. Making money from blog traffic is hard, since the competition is stiff. But you can make it easier if you will be smart and creative enough. By the way, here is a great post entitled Monetizing Blog Traffic Efficiently: Visitors or Readers? It is about the different kinds of traffic and how you can possibly make money from them. Here is the link - http://www.notmakingmoneyonline.com/archives/monetizing-blog-traffic-efficiently-visitors-or-readers.html Hope that helps.

Getting traffic to your site is not so easy because it needs a very good postings. igf you want to get good traffic then up date your site regularily, try to post news and good key words, you can recomend the site keywordcountry.com where you will find good key words so that yoursite will come rank 1 in search engines and then only you will get good traffics

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