something about girlfriend

Hi,it has no harm in being short tempered.I myself is a person of short tempered.My boyfriend is very co-operating.He sometimes get irritated my as a whole we are happy.When ever he looses his control,I can understand that there is something wrong.Actually it totally depends upon your understanding with your girlfriend.After all she is your life partner and both of you has to live with your likings and dislikings.

Do you have a bad or emotional temper? What makes you argue with her the most? Maybe you should calm down yourself next time when something bothers you, try to talk to her in a calm way so that you and her can figure out the problems instead of developing the problems into bigger quarrel issues.

Hi,it doesn't matter.After all she is going to be your life partner.If she understand you very well then she will ofviously understand your problem.

Its a very normal thing in real life to get involve in quarrel with your girlfriend but the thing is you should have the commitment in your relation. Me too often quarrel with her. but that doesn't matter because we both know very well that it happens because we love each other more than anyone. so, don't worry...

If the two of you always argue about something, then there must be something wrong. YOu said it happens so often right? so you should do something 'bout it. The two of you might end up breaking up or something undesirable might happen :-). I bet you don't want that ... CONTROL yourself. be the one who's calm, mature and by being cool you can definitely control the situation. Hope it helps. Godbless

Ok, the first thing I realized when i was having this problem with my husband, was that I saw things in him that I hated about myself. I did not have the will power to change those things in me, but seemed to have no problem in attempting to control him and make him change. The only thing I can suggest right now without knowing exactly what it is that you fight about, is take a step back and see whether this is something that you do as well, and if so, ask yourself how you would like to fix the problem for yourself before you try fixing the problem with her. You can't make a relationship work with someone else if your relationship with yourself is not what it should be.