If your bf want to broke with you ,will you kill yourself?
By emma1987
@emma1987 (107)
China
April 7, 2009 11:47pm CST
If you love a person very much.One he said he want to leave you.And you begged again and again ,but it was not worked.Will you kill yourself at last?
How could a man's heart be so cold?
Why dont him trust you?
I want to be die,I want to make me feel sorry to me in his all life.
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7 responses
@MAHESH2008 (844)
• India
8 Apr 09
No way if a partner wants to broke a relation ship and has enough courage to tell it clearly that mens they are no more in love so why to die for such a person who is not in love with you.Love is full of faith , trust and believes if one doesnot have that , than its better to brokeup and look for new and better life.
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@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
oh! I've been there before! but don't waste your life with thinking on killing your self just to make him regret what he had done to you, instead make yourself busy! be happy! don't think of him! hang-out with your friends! life doesn't end there! just think of this! "Everything happens for a reason!" just wait for that reason to show up and you'll realize it someday and I'll bet you'll be glad!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Apr 09
Yes!Zaphan is right.Make yourself busy.Set good goals in your life and reach it in your life time.Let that bloody boyfriend die for missing you and repent for it.For you,time will heal all the wounds.Cheer up!There are more things in life apart from love.Love is just a chapter and not the whole book.
@aileen18 (170)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
kill myself just because of a guy who dumped me?? oh no, he's not worth it. if he wanted to leave you then let him do what he want, even if it tears your heart apart. you should not waste your time or your life on a guy like that, maybe there is someone really meant for you who will truly love you, appreciates you, care for you and respect you.:)
@aileen18 (170)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
oh boy, don't said anything like that. he's not the only man in this world and there's too many of them. i'm sure that someone is really meant for you. be strong and don't waste your time on him. go out with your friends and have fun. stop being selfish thinking only of yourself, what about your family? do you want them to be lonely once you're gone? it's hard to forget someone you truly love but that's the reality my dear, you just have to be more stronger in dealing with this kind of situations. praying will help you a lot, why don't you try it? maybe this is the time for you to get closer with god. just don't do anything bad..okay?
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
8 Apr 09
Well you have already confessed that you think its stupid. So u know its not the right option isn't it? Well time will heal all wounds. I hope you will get out of it soon. Meanwhile, you try to indulge yourself in other activities, go our wid frendz, go out shopping, movies, games, and playing well on the whole keep yourself busy and soon you ll forget....seems impossible but it isn't!
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@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
8 Apr 09
No, I don't do this thing. I try to dumb him before he try to dump me. Because in my way it is the rule of life.
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@kayefedilo21 (22)
• Philippines
8 Apr 09
the guy is a jerk, if he can't love you anymore, don't blame yourself, especially if you had given him everything that you can. you don't have to kill yourself for someone who isn't worth it, as painful as it it. you;ll get past all this
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@wxo200345 (101)
• China
8 Apr 09
anyone who has gone through such experiences deeply understand that nearly all the persuasion,consolation and encouragement in this situation are unworked. only the time can make everything passed, some times the pain is aslo the wealth for your future.if you can get over this barrier, you may find the love is not the full of your life and your current idea is stupid.
wish you walk out of the painful pool as soon as possible
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
13 Apr 09
The first thing is if you kill yourself it is not going to make him feel bad. He can not help the feelings he is having any more than you continue to keep loving him. See why he doesn't trust you would be the first thing. But the thing about it is there is no one on earth worth killing yourself for. It might be so bad now that you think that is the only way but it is not. You need to find a friend to talk to and who can help you through this very hard time. Many years ago I have been where you are now and I got through it as hard as it was too. Find something to do to keep yourself from dwelling on what he has said to you.
