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Hi jhawk! I'm curious, with whom do you and your boyfriend would want to have threesome with, another lady or another man?

Hi and what a great topic of conversation! But before I completely blow the doors wide open I would like to ask a couple of points about your view and why you started this discussion. Firstly, yes like many would agree third party intervention can spice things up a little but also, it can bring things back to earth with an almighty thump. But why did you ask this question, was it solely because of your man or does this have an alternative reason too? Here is the questions I would be asking myself: 1) Are you prepared if it all goes wrong? 2) Are you asking this because you are under some pressure? 3) Do you have thoughts about enjoying another females presence? Personally I have a preference and that is One man - One Woman but like I said, it is my preference. If for one minute I thought I was not pleasing my partner then this would be something we would need to look at and the reasons why. And if it's ok with you I would like to make an observation if I may? Why would any man ever want to risk the loss of someone as fantastic as you? I know I wouldn't take that risk, especially if I was as privileged as you man is having you as his partner. (*Small Print*) No, im not coming on to you, I just thought good observation is always a great way to communicate your true thoughts. Anyway, I look forward to following this one up, it has some real possibilities as far as talking points. Take care of yourself, and your family!

i've had about 6 threesome so far in my life. well when i was dating it was with my partner and one of her girlfriends, but when i wasnt dating then it tended to be with two girls i've meet or two girls that were my friends. some times the more people the better. personally i think is a good thing, but not for some one who get jelous easy. threesome have to be agreed on its not something that should be forced on some one unless their into that kind of thing. i've had some people ask me before if it was considered cheating, but when your partner knows and is part of it its not cheating. its another thing to do it behind their backs.