Have you ever fallen in love then seem to not be in love with them as much?

Correct me if im right or wrong. You are living with your bf for 6 years and you have kids also. And now your in love with the father of your kids and your bf also, but your not quite sure if you love him more than he feels for you. I haven't experiences such thing but you are the only one who can answer if your really love him or not. But did you know that you can learn to love someone most especially who is giving more attentions, who have good intentions toward you.

yes, i think twice already. at first i was really interested about her, we dated, made phone calls, exchange text messages then after a while, i felt very different towards her and i don't know why, it's just happen all of a sudden. i didn't felt anything after that. we are still friends, back to where we had started and that is good, no hard feelings whatsoever.

The closest I have had with this experience I think would be to think that I WAS in love with a person but ended up realizing after a while that I wasn't. Right now I am ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN that I'm in love :) I'm at peace with myself and I am comfortable being with my boyfriend :) Thanks for the response on my discussion!

i like your story. maybe your situation seems like what happened to me. but i hope i can feel the same way too. i am glad that you felt different afterward. i am hoping that i will deepen my love to my boyfriend right now. our relationship is also rocky right now. and we are fixing it.

hello jhawkin214, that is a great story sounds cool glad it is all working out for you guys. Usually you here the opposite people meet get in your situation and it quickly fail apart. Great job and i wish you guys continued success.

I think that when you are in a long term relationship, there will be times when you you dont feel lik you are in love with your partner, butif you stick with it, then once things get back to normal, or less rocky anyway, then you feel more in love with your partner