More than one girlfriend? Wow..

The answer to this rely on one thing. What kind of relationship are you talking about. If you are just friends with most of them then it only becomes a scheduling issue. But the moment they become interested and she moves from friend to girl friend things change. Expectations change and you are really asking for it if you have more that one true girl friend. When I begin to date after recovering from the loss of my wife I soon found myself asking many woman out for that one time meeting. In that first month I met with 9 women and some more than once. I made sure that it would not be expensive and that my expectation of how it went would not be high. While most of the meetings were just a one time get to know you kind of meeting I can tell you it liked to drove me nuts. I never knew when I was going to loose track of who I was meeting and call them the wrong name. LOL Once I found a lady however that I really liked I stopped everything else. When that happens you will have your hands full with only one. Women are not real fond of going with someone they know is seeing a lot of other women. Yea I don't understand it ether. LOL So what it comes down to is expectations. If she expects that you may be that special guy and you feel the same about her then the game is over. Regardless I do not recommend doing what I did. It was kind of fun but very stressful. Women do not play that game well and you are only asking for trouble. The worse thing that can happen....you really start liking a girl and you run into another one you are dating. Just try talking your way out of that one.

I have many girls in my life at a time, and it's easy, because they aren't girlfriends.

Many girls nowadays are not the same as their those before them. There are girls who are prepared to pay the bill when for example they eat outside. So havung more than one girlfriend may not drain away your money. The strategy or trick is to find a girl who does not expect the man to foot the bill. There may be people who say that only desperate girls/women would go dutch, or even give the man they love a treat. Not all are like that. Some see it as part of modernisation, where equality should apply in all aspects of life. Should you find one or several liberal minded girls do not take advantage over them. If you plan properly you will be able to maintain a good relationship with each of them. Before embarking on multiple relationships think of all possible consequences. I do not recommend it. all the best, rosdimy

having more than 1 girl is obviously a headache. in fact managing one girl is also a big headache. you need to have a lot of funds to satisfy their needs. and by the time you try to satisfy their needs you will find that your pocket have gone empty. it sounds fun but it is a big big headache