If You're in My Shoes..
By hacker4ever
@hacker4ever (297)
Philippines
April 9, 2009 10:19am CST
Here's the picture: I've had a crush in my senior year in high school. Until now, I can't think of other woman than her. She's really my type; smart, adventurous, and family-oriented. Unfortunately, for all of my senior year I've never told it on her coz I'm really not prepared to have a relationship. Now it's been three years already and I just recently told all of my feelings to her last v-day and she went shocked. Though I've said to her that I'm not taking relationships yet coz I want to make it happen bizarrely. Since our high school graduation she's studying out-of-town and I think I can't have a long distance relationship with her. My question is does long distance relationship work? Is it acceptable for most of the women?
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2 responses
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
9 Apr 09
My best friend has a long distance affair with a man. I think based on her experience that long distance relationship does work. Anyway, we can never really tell what works and not. It is always dependent on how both parties make way to make the relationship last and work. Although statistics would say that the success rate of long distance relationship is low, it doesn't mean that you would lose hope and give up on your feelings.
Love is a feeling that transcends physical realm. The separation is never a hindrance to make love fade and go away. Although physical presence is needed for a relationship to really work but the separation is not a lifetime. You would still be with her some time and hope for that time to come.
Give it a shot. Try. Then, see if it works for the both of you.
Give it a shot. Try. Then, see if it works for the both of you.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
9 Apr 09
Long distance relationships can work if both parties are willing to but the hard work and time into the relationship. They take work and understanding you don't want to jump to conclusions with some things.
