to whom do u give preference in your life ur best friend or ur life partner

India
April 9, 2009 2:22pm CST
on side of u is ur friend n one side of u is ur life partner,after marriage u dont have time to spend for ur friends .even if u spend ur time with ur friends ur wife will not tolerate it.in this situation what will u do
5 responses
@txgrl21 (819)
• United States
9 Apr 09
I would give preferanse to my partner and I think my friend should understand that. once you settle down with someone its a committment for life(well most of the time) while on the other hand your friend may not be your friend forever. your partner is also your family and family is always the most important thing for me.
11 Apr 09
I agree 100% with you!
@subi21 (72)
• India
17 Apr 09
I also agree with you. But don't broke the friendships....it also hurts
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
18 Jul 10
Well my partner who is also my best friend.
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Apr 09
They are both one and the same. It would have to be that way. I am a care taker and I have to be with my fellow. If a friend needed me I would try to help but not to the detrement of my relationship. Nor would I put a friend over him if he needed me. If a girlfriend needed me and he didn't for awhile then I would go help her. See what I mean? I spent too much time taking care of kids and now it is my time.
@Emma30587 (402)
11 Apr 09
This is a good question but I have to say my partner would win everytime. I spend all my time with my husband, even when we are asleep we are together and hes my best friend, husband and part of my family and family is very important to me.
@sujaysen (594)
• India
11 Apr 09
We should give preference to both but not at same time. We should give priority to each without the presence of other.