are you dependent in a certain aspect or area?

right at the moment, I am not dependent on anyone for anything. I have been in that spot enough in the past to know that it is not a spot that I like to be in. Good luck to you on learning to drive. I'm sure that you'll do just fine and then be wondering how you managed to get by this long without your license!

Hello checapricorn, I think I am an independent person. I always do things on my own but sometimes, as a wife I do feel like I need to show that I am depending to my husband Just want him to feel that I need him to help out... you know what I mean? I love to be independent as it makes my life easier.

that would be cooking. if i dont eat i will die har har har (jimmy santos) and if i am the one who will cook then that would be a food that is not easy to swallow. so i am so dependent to my wife when it comes to food. on the other part she is dependent to me on running errands as paying bills and making sure i pay it on time. she really freaks out when she gets a disconnection specially from electric.

i dont drive too and wants to learn but somehow when i touch the gear i get nervous.miss you ma´am che

I don't know how to drive too. It's either I take the train or I let him drive up for me. He works 24 hours every other day so he can only drive me up every other day. He also goes to my work when I am about to go home, as long as he has no work. If he is not around I take the train. So my response is driving I am dependent to him when it somes to that.

Hi Che. As of now I am financially dependent on my husband since I have no contribution as to household income; he is the sole earner. Although lately I am enjoying some fruits of my internet earnings and a little bit of allowance from the government for my personal expenses, income still comes mainly from hubby. As to driving, I have been driving on my own for more than a year now. Che, believe me, getting a driver's license is one of the best favor you can give to yourself. It is very liberating to be on your own and going places. That's the only way I was able to regain my independence. I enjoy so much going places now, shopping, doing mystery shopping assignments, going places with a friend and even running errands when I am on my own.

Well, I do not drive either. I have never had a Drivers license either, and it is probably a Good thing. I am on Insulin and have a Cataract so my vision at times is not the Best. So I am quite dependant on my husband as well, and many times will not go anywhere by myself as well. Also due to Health issues from the past and everything going on now, most of the time I am dependant on my husband for the cooking, and help getting the cleaning, etc. done around the house as well.

Hi che, I am glad that you are going to learn to drive this year. You need to practise the practical driving on the road, and study the traffic regulations nicely at the same time. Hopefully by doing this you could get your driver license successfully. Yeah, it is quite convenient for us to get to whatever place we wish, if we could drive there ourselves. You know sometimes our partner is really busy and couldn’t stay away from his work just to serve us as our personal driver during that very moment. Happy posting and take care.

Oh..you should not depend on others to drive you around. There are lots of fun when you can be behind the wheel. I am a very independent lady and a survivor. I believe my hard knocks in life have taught me to be strong and not to depend on others. So far this has been my strongest asset - very independent.

im in the same boat as you, i have never learned how to drive, im 22 now and when i was a teen i knew that my parents couldnt afford to get me a car so i just never attemepted to get my license but now that it has been a few years i do have a little phobia about getting it, but it is difficult having to ask for rides all the time too though :( so i feel your pain and i too am hoping to get over my driving fears soon and get my own car

Since i don't have a nanny for my daugter... i depend of my in-laws and sometimes my parents to take care of her everytime i go to work... i have no plans of getting a nanny for her... mainly because i don't trust them... and we can't afford to hire one... I hope you get to learn how to drive soon...

I am a very independant woman and do everything that needs to be done, myself. But I was not always this independant. When I was married the first time, 27 years ago, I didn't have my driver's licence either so I depended on my husband to take me everywhere I needed to go. And for my job back then, I took a bus to work every day. But after I got my divorce I decided I was never going to depend on a man ever again and I taught myself to drive and bought myself a car and then went and got my license and have been driving myself ever since. That is about 22 years ago. I like my independance and it will be hard to ever give that up if I ever have to.

Hi Che, We are pretty much the same. I am still learning to drive. Though I am driving sometimes but not in the highway just in the back road hahaha.. But then, I can not have my license because our insurance will be higher as soon as I am driving and you know, I am not working and it will be an additional bills. I will just practice and if I can have a sure prospect for work, that's the time I will get my license. Indeed it is very upsetting when you can not go anywhere unless you have somebody to drive for you. I am just glad that I have some friends who will pick me up sometimes and that I can go out and have fun with them.. anyway, we will get there somehow. Good luck to us.

I don't know how to drive but I don't have a car or bike with me so, I am not dependent on anyone for travelling but on public transport!

hi che, there are some aspect that i depend to my husband decision and i leave it to him to decide esp.on financial matters..

I'm dependant on my hubs pay cheque and that drives me nuts as I've always made my own money..........and you can be sure the hubs never lets me forget it! lol

Oh just mostly regarding things that hurt my back, heavy lifting, bending, etc. I don't like tanking my car, husband usually does it, but I can do it if I need to. Funny though, when I do it myself he complains that he feels useless. It's almost like he's dependent on me to be dependent on him. lol

I can not drive either and am scared to drive to be honest so my fiance and I go places everywhere together. IT doesn't bother me to much only every once in a while that I can't drive.

hi che! yah you have to enroll on how to drive,, its very important for you to know, because i know your husband is not 24 hours at your side right? for some reasons,you have to know how to drive, and no excuse of not doing so because u have cars. LOL its okay if i still dont know also how to drive since i dont have car , and i know soon i can have one. LOL

i am always independent in my life also sometimes things are quite difficlut for to deal with but I still keep independent myself and never ask for help my parents and friends always respect me for this