Would you marry someone you love or someone who loves you?

Norway
April 9, 2009 4:56pm CST
Considering the evens and odds of marriages, which would you advice my 25yr old cousin. Well the short of the story is,,,,,, he got 2 girlfriends and he wants to take that step. He loves girl 'A' but he says she dont feel that way like she use to and girl 'B' loves him but he dont love her as much, So i asked him to go have some time for himself while i consult the oracles......lol;). Mylotters, what do we tell him?
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txgrl21
@txgrl21 (819)
• United States
9 Apr 09
Get rid of both and start over and do it right this time. If he goes for girl A she will be unhappy and if he goes for girl b he will be unhappy and before he knows it someone will get hurt.
2totallycool
@2totallycool (98)
• Norway
9 Apr 09
Cool, but i dont think that will help. Let try some thing else
2totallycool
@2totallycool (98)
• Norway
9 Apr 09
Cool, but i dont think that will help. Let try some thing else
Lee Ka
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
10 Apr 09
It's really difficult for others to advise whom one should marry. I am just thinking, if he has this doubt, he does not really love both of them, and even he marry either of them, he may not be happy. But, some may not consider "LOVE" is the first priority in marriage, then he can consider who can be the better wife and better mum. As your cousin is still so young, why does he need to decide whom to marry now? Why doesn't he wait until he really loves someone and he really wants to marry with that girl?
anindyadas
@anindyadas (97)
• India
10 Apr 09
i love my girlfriend and she also loves me and we will getting married after ending our education and getting a suitable job