how well can you judge people?
By pratik87
@pratik87 (1927)
India
11 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Apr 09
i am very big on first impressions. i
m usually not wrong. i think i'm a good judge of people. worked for the public for 47 years. u get to learn people pretty good doing that.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Apr 09
i was a hairdresser so came intact w/alot of folks, good & bad. lol. have a happy friday.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
20 May 09
I am not a good judge of people. I am rather emotional and immature. To me, each person is 'innocent until proven guilty' i.e. good until they have harmed me.
@alwaysonline (9)
• China
10 Apr 09
I think I'm not a good judge of people,I can't able to identify what kind of person someone is when I first meet.I always think everyone is kindly,perhaps that's because I'm too warm-hearted.generally speaking,when contacts with someone for one or two weeks,I will decide if I will continue to contact to him.
do you konw a book from chinesse calls bingjian,which is handed down.and this book tells we should believe in someone or not by observation of his appearance,include bone,foread,mouth,nose,etc.I think sometimes we needn't to get to konw more about someone,apart from several best friends.no matter how chactaor someone is ,that is their things ,not yours.
@Jenniferp (210)
• United States
17 Apr 09
I have pretty good instincts by nature about people. I am synical by nature and this has proved to be somewhat helpful. Honestly, I trust nobody until they have proven to be okay. I have been right many times and it has saved some friends a lot of heartbreak. I have been wrong too and was the heartbroken one. You would have to have some real power to always get it right ;)
@lululastrange (339)
• United States
20 May 09
The bible says that you should never "judge" anyone... Though I would like to think that I am highly empathic and that my first instinct is usually correct... Of course, there are days when I can't do anything right :)
@pal7604 (98)
• Sweden
17 Apr 09
In my opinion, no one has the right to judge anyone by his/her looks. Have you heard of the saying: DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER? You will be able to feel if a person is good or not by looking straight to their eyes when you converse. It is after all the mirror of your soul.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
10 Apr 09
I don't like to judge people who come across my business.Only their motivation of dealing a business has to be seen.Whatever character he may have will not influence the business.So,I don't try to judge them.
In day to day life,I can judge people with their face look and body languages.But I won't run into quick conclusions and take a little time to decide.Cheers!
@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
17 May 09
I don't think anyone can tell exactly how a person is when they first meet them. Unless its in a setting to were people are drinking or something like that, most people try to leave a good impression when they meet someone. I think it takes time to really know what kind of a person their are.