Have you ever been deserted?

Love one desertion is not a good one. My advice to you is to heed to your sister in law advice. Let your boyfriend cool down. No one likes an argument and sometimes we say/do things that we regretted later but after thinking and rational it out he/she will return. Just pray that he is safe. A little argument cannot break up a long lasting relationship if both partners love each other.

Hi laydee, Im sorry to hear about that. I guess the best thing to do is pray for him and let him enjoy the space and maybe after that break, he will contact you again... I've never experienced that...I have small fight with my husband but we always settle it right away, he is very patient and all the time, he is the one who will approach me since I have this silly pride! Anyway, sometimes, people need a break, a time where they can think, evaluate the situation and after that, I am sure he will talk to you!

I've been deserted too by my ex boyfriend. He just disappeared without saying goodbye or anything. I waited for him for a year and after 3 years he just showed up and act like nothing happened between us.

I hope you are feeling better about this situation. I cannot comment on what to do as i have not got the full details. i felt deserted 11 years ago when my Fiancee walked out on me for another girl. It took me several years to get over that.

Wow I am sorry to hear that ,I hope it works out for you eventually but I think you should do as your sister says and give him some time.I can just imagine what you are going through though and I would be going out of my mind but I think you should just take it easy and wait .Unfortunately you must embrace the idea that he may not come back and be able to live with yourself after that .I have my fingers crossed though that it will work out for you

maybe your boyfriend needs space and he wants to think.try to evaluate yourself what are things you did which made him to go away without telling you.If you did your best in your relationship then you should not guilty of.You need to move on.Do things that will boast your self-confidence.Prove that you are somebody.And ifever he comes back then he'll see that you are better than before.I know it's not easy but you will end as a loser if you don't want to move on.I know that time will heal the pain.If you love him still, of course you can't force yourself, but as time goes on, changes will happen.Set him free, if he come back then he really loves you. But if not, then he doesn't deserve your love and you can still meet more deserving guy who will love you truly and unconditionally. Have a great day! SMILE always...there are many opportunities around.Happy mylotting!

laydee, I am sorry to hear what you are going through at this time and I am equally disappointed of your boyfriend. I really do not condone and agree with his doings especially when it is deliberate and irresponsibly put to you. His disregard of your feelings and concern for him is just deplorable. I would not even want to reconsider and give this episode another second of thought or worry, even if the sting of pain is unbearable here. Because, no matter how much you put into worrying and wondering you are not going to get the answers for his sudden withdrawal. Life still goes on, so just move on, maybe he just does not deserve you and I am sure that there will be someone better. Have a nice day.

If I am not mistaking then it must be more than a week since he left you without any trace of himself in your life. I myself am very arrogant on such topics. So, if you ask me I would suggest you to leave him alone for a month or two and start dating someone else. He will come back to you. For me, I don't know what deserted is or what does it feel but I do know that it is not cool that we loose a friend who was some very special to us! LOL! I have been in such sitation most of the time that I had to cry for hours, just to get rid of the sad thoughts I used to have with me!

well i too was deserted once , well i dont noe if she loved me or not , but i luved her very much , but once we both had a fight and she just left me , i tried to contact her and tell sorry to her but she was nowhere to be found , but recently she met me , she talked nicely but there was a lot of change in her attitude, she was no more like the person whom i loved. i dont no y she turned up this way . still i luv her and hope that she would understand my feelings . the only thing i can say here is , if u loved ur boyfriend very much u wount be able to forget him , and dont even try to do that so becaz it will then be very painful for u . the tide of time will fix every thing .

Until now,i`ve never met this things,i have a good relationship with all of my friends.If this really happen- i dont know whether who have mistakes between you,if i`m the wrong one,i should do sth to affect him or let him know what am i thinking.but if he is the wrong guy,i think a mediator should be needed and it is best that the one could be your both friend. well,i hope you could have a good solution :)

you feel deserted when there is no one to share your feelings or there is one person who is missing whom you would love to be with, in spite of having many of your friends along. i feel it most of the time when there is no 1 around to share my feelings, and im left alone at home.i don't have much close friends and so i feel deserted most of the times.

Although I have cast them, but i can feel a feeling of being abandoned.This is not the way we noly to cheer up,face the reality ,facing the future life!