love you and you love, how to decide?

i will choose the person who loves me much. maybe a litter selfish.

Hi buddy well as far as the question of choosing the partner goes we should always select a person who loves you because he or she is the person who can do any thing for you,he or she can sacrifice anything for you.while in the other case where you love a person and the person does`nt it would be you who will be doing all those things and will starve throughout your life for love.Its always best to find a person who loves you and you too love him that makes the happy couple

I think that I would rather be alone and travel the world while being good friends with the person I love than have someone suffer from loving me and me not loving him in return. I don't think I could be that cruel although I admit that I often selfish. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

Indeed , I don't know. This is really a hard thing but you must choose one, maybe incorrect. Indeed, I think there are less people come to together just having love. Many thing you can't decide. Finding a girl who love you, but you don't love her as she. If you always think choosing another? if you always think you are not a happy guy since you don't get her who you love? For her, it is also not equitable, he do many for you but you don't love her. Hard thing, so don't to think it. I don't know whether my wife love me and I also don't know whether I love my wife. I just treat her as my relative as parents and brother.