I'm so scared ...

@jess07 (319)
April 10, 2009 1:38pm CST
Hi, My boyfriend has a really bad habit, when he is down,depressed, if we have a really bad argument etc, He will take a knife to his wrists.He has really bad scares from it, he always promises he won't start again but then we'll have couple problems and he'll do it again.He says that i should'nt worry because he always makes sure he "misses". I'm so scared that one day he won't "miss" and he'll commit suicide. What can I do ?
2 responses
suveer35
@suveer35 (98)
• India
10 Apr 09
Hi jess ,well its really sound so sick to hurt yourself because you are depressed.There are many ways a person can release his feeling of depression.I think your case when he is feeling defeated in the argument he does the thing to just emotionally blackmail you.what you can do is talk with him that if he repeats the same again he will loose you or else you can take him to a psychiatrist who can help him to quit this habit.
jess07
@jess07 (319)
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10 Apr 09
Hi Thanks so much for your response.I do feel emotionally blackmailled. If he hurts my feelings or does something that hurts me i just let it go or try to. Thanks again ! Jess .
SethVerlo
@SethVerlo (31)
• China
11 Apr 09
I agree……I think you should try to change him…
born1989
@born1989 (177)
• India
16 Apr 09
it's a very tricky situation too which i can't comment right now. i know u may be in a fix right now as in what to do? but then to try & make him understand, as only love talks. all the best. happy mylotting.