being a lover is ok

i think it is not love.it is insecurity,may be your friend passes her life in crisis so she wants only money not that man .she dont know how beautifull feeling in love without any expectation.love is a feeling of purity.it is agreediness.i know money is importent to live life but happiness is more importent then that.

Well,how far she is going to have in that relationship?The money,that boy friend has is her interest and we can't call it love.They are just using each other.Pure materialistic relationship.Sooner or later,she will feel sorry for having that friend.Please ask her to come out of it,if you can do any favour for her.Cheers!

yeah you can be a lover for the right reasons but someone 40 years older come on she's got a problem no matter how much ging the guy's got. my friend is 14 years younger than me, when we first met 11 years ago things were the same but as i got older im 59 she's 45 im slowin down and she's still crankin away, but it's cool, just that i want some couch time now lmao and the games on dont bother me, unless you have food.lol

well i don't know about their relationship , but you said or intimated that she want him just for his money i mean she wants to be his partner only not a wife material thing so i don't know about them , if she really loves him i think it'll work

Age really doesn't matter as long as they love each other. But if she only wants him because of "money", that's a different story. I can't really make a judgement because I don't know them. Time will come that they can decide on things that are good for them...whether to marry or not.

I don't think she can get her true love for ever...it'a secret anyway....