Do you know? Enemy of Love
By vivianchen
@vivianchen (2646)
China
April 10, 2009 10:53pm CST
We thought we all know how to love and what is love, how beatiful love is. But do you know or do you aware of the enemy of love? Check it out:
1. Lack of Patience
2. Lack of awareness
3. Jealousy (The big and bad ones)
4. Laziness
5. Lack of understanding
6. Shyness
7. Nagging
Are you having one of these enemies? If so, what are you going to do about it?
7 responses
@captain_zhang (5)
• China
11 Apr 09
I am shy, and still single. I don't konw how to do. anyone can give some suggestions?
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
11 Apr 09
Hello Captain,
Don't be shy, just try! Lol....if you ever met a girl that you like, just told her you like her, you can either say it to her face or send message or sent email to her. One thing you need to know, if you fail, it's okay, it's not a big deal, it's the process that every man will suffer. So don't be shy.
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
Hello captain. Same here, single since birth. lol. The thing is, you should try it. There's no harm in tryig. I've been on a date for three different guy but still I can't find the right one. Dating is marrying someone. Try to date someone ok. God Bless.
@shikimurei (284)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
I think I have Lack of Patience and Shyness. I am trying to learn how to be patient and with my shyness?It's hard for me to open up my true feelings because I don't like rejection.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
14 Apr 09
Hi Shikimurei, no body like rejections, but we got to learn how to accpet it. I am lack of patience tpp. I am trying to contorl my temper when i think i am always lose control. For your shyness, you have to start the very first step, the more you open up, the more outgoing you will become. Keep going!
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
13 Apr 09
I guess for me it is shyness. Sometimes I am too shy for some things, but the guy I am with understands that I am shy and still loves me for it. I try not to have the other enemies when it comes to love and my relationships.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
14 Apr 09
A little shy makes you lovely. But if you are very shy, you don't even dare to talk to people, then it will become a communicate problems. I am sure, with the love and your BF's help, you will become better and better on the shyness.
@hazelsweetme (199)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
all of the above,..and i don't know wat to do anymore,..
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
14 Apr 09
If those tips work for you, if you think they can help you to remind yourself, then this is what you learn from mylot again.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
11 Apr 09
Hello Cindy, i could not agree more! i think i am not patience enough to my family. I mean i am a kind person, and i am always friendly and patient to my friends, but i am inpatience to my family, i felt bad sometimes because of that.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
13 Apr 09
2. Lack of awareness...
Sigh , i don't know why sometimes i just feel like my bf doesn't really behaves the way i want him to...Sometimes i expect a certain behaviour from him but he just doesn't seem to notice that i'm hinting something infront of him there...Sometimes i hint that i want something from him, he just simply ignores me...I don't know if he really didn't seee it or maybe he was just being HIM...I have a hard time accepting that one..hah..
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
14 Apr 09
I am sure many girls have the same feeling like you do. I got the same frustration feeling when i want something from my bf but he gave me the other things. When i say no he thought i said yes, i say yes he thought i don't really want. Very frustrated.
@owntuilp (422)
• China
15 Apr 09
cool,love is so fantastic,for me,i think i will find a way to get my type,so whatever happen on the way ,i never give up my dream and faith.i hope every one can find the right person belong to theirselves.
