I'm guilty but pride won't let me admit it to him.

@teeger (46)
Philippines
April 11, 2009 12:37am CST
My boyfriend and I had a fight and I feel guilty about not understanding him more. But I can't talk to him 'coz of my stupid pride. Have this ever happened to you and your boy/girlfriend? What advice can you give me? Thanks in advance.
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4 responses
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
11 Apr 09
YES, it happened to me so many times...Throughout the 3 years i have been with my bf, and the fights that we have, almost all the time i'd find it hard to give in...Maybe because i'm afraid that he'd turn smug about it or something, or maybe i'm just plain egoistic ={ I guess you should drop it, learn to not let your pride stand in the way of building a healthier relationship...Now thati have, my relationship with my bf has been arguement free for quite some time noe ^_^ just an opinion though...take care~
@srganesh (6340)
• India
11 Apr 09
Don't feel guilty anymore.Just go to him and talk to him as if nothing has happened.That is one way of giving up and asking sorry.Your boyfriend will understand you.And your pride will not be hurt.Cheers!
• Pakistan
11 Apr 09
forget and forgive it all. You can get back your friend on cost of multiplying your stupid pride with zero or with minus. yes this is possible. try it know. He is not the living time which can not return. Fight in love affairs is also a sort of love. If he likes you than he should not mind the behavior or attitude which was natural. forget it all and forgive him to solve your problem.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
11 Apr 09
In a relationship in order to work and last, pride should be set aside. Since you knew that you made a fault to cause of a fight or argument, you have to say sorry in a sincere manner. Though it happened with me too, sometimes pride ruled over me, but it wont take long. In the next few hours or day, I would go jump and give him a hug and saying sorry. But if I knew that it wasn't all my fault, then he needs to give an effort to solve the problem....lol