How long it takes for lovers to cultivate love and get married
By iamfine
@iamfine (740)
China
April 11, 2009 12:54am CST
Hello. there are 2 girls live around me, they are all my classmates in university.
One has been going out with a boy for almost five years, but they still don't plan to get into marriage, she said that they are not suitable for mariage. I don't know why.
The other, who make acquantace with her boyfriend for three months, and now they have been engaged, and are going to ger married on May. That's too fast. Hope that they won't regret.
Sometimes I think it is good to get married, sometimes i don't want it at all. I think before we get married, we should take serious consideration, or when we have been hanging out for too much time and find that we are not suitable, why not break up and stop wasting time together.
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2 responses
@evans_33ke (125)
• United States
11 Apr 09
Marriage involves a lifetime commitment. It is therefor important that you know the person that you want to marry so well before you can decide to tie the knot. Time is always never the same for everyone. It can take you three months to know someone, and it can take someone else six years to know his/her partner well. The only common thing is how well do you know the person you want to marry?
@srganesh (6340)
• India
11 Apr 09
I think,it depends on those people to decide.If they find themselves true match,then they shall plunge into marriage as next step to love.If they have the dilemma,whether they could do well with marriage,then they have to postpone things.About still going on,even after they have found themselves unsuitable,the reason may be,they can't get another partner and they are roaming around for the mean time.Cheers!
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