Life goes On ...
By jess07
@jess07 (319)
April 11, 2009 1:52pm CST
Hi,
I've had two really hard years, losing my baby cousin, my great grandad,and a few friends.
Having money problems having to sell my gorgeous horses who made my days just that much better and gave me that more hope...
This year my mother abandonned me and gave up her parental rights to my grandparents to go and live with a man she met on the internet !
Having never knew my dad and the fact that she refused to have his name put on my birth certificate ...
But i've realised that whatever goes wrong life goes on, i've tried my hardest to stand strong for my aunt when she lost her baby, and for my family when my great grandad passed away.I was their rock.
But now i really feel Blue.
What should I do ? I know life goes on but is it normal to feel so down ?
How do you deal with your pain and fears ?
3 responses
@eztuner (450)
• United States
11 Apr 09
jess, baby take a deep breath and then let it out slowly. Believe me when I said lfe sometimes sucks, but girl your purpose in life is not line it by the people that brought you up, but by your dreams and desires. You need to shape your future regardless of all the lemons life has giving you. Dream "Big" for yourself imagine the life you wish for yourself, and then you go out there and grab it for you, Stay in school, go to college, and work hard until you get what you have shape as your ideal Life! YOU DESERVE IT!!!! Do not seat there feeling sorry for the parents you happened to have, feel Happy for your grandparents, and the aunt you have, find courage in your heart to tell yourself "This is the way, Life has chosen to help me find the best in me! And be proud of who you are, because for sure you are someone SPECIAL, full of great qualities and with a potential waiting to be unleash.
My best wishes for you, If I can be of any help to you, do not hesitate to contact me, I will be glad to assist you!
@drdivu (1011)
• India
12 Apr 09
well, my friend, u have certainly gone thro a lot in ur life..I can just tell u to move on with ur life and take as each day comes..though i too m going thro a rough patch in my life but its not as hard as urs...So just pray and keep moving quietly...EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD..!! may be this is making u strong and something better is in store for u..so U CAN JUDGE THINGS WISELY LATER ON IN LIFE..
may god bless u..
@sayh123 (150)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
Oh noh.. I'm so sad about your situation and you made it feels so bad.
As for me, you can do it your self and take time to rest for a few couple of time.
Look into yourself that you make it feel busy my friend. And afterwards, you must have your own good decision and prove to the people around you that you make the right thing to do. But you must believe in yourself and trust it. And don't forget to pray and help to the lord. I know God always be there for us and makes it happy.
