How old do you think is best for a girl to have a marriage ?
By happy2009
@happy2009 (330)
China
April 12, 2009 1:33am CST
I'm 27 now and I've married two years ago ,but many of my college friends are still single ,some of them plan to marry now ,but they often said it's so hard to find their Mr right for the busy work ,some of them said they will not plan it before their 3o.in their mind ,marriage is a heavey burden to them .what's your opinion?how old do you think is best for a girl to have a marriage?
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@asianwind (365)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
I guess your is the right age. You are now matured and know your responsibility and you have already the taste of life. It would be nice to take it to the next level. Good luck! I wish you the best!
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@happy2009 (330)
• China
12 Apr 09
Thanks for your kindly words !Good luck too !
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@Franco2009 (74)
• China
14 Apr 09
Yes , i think girls should get a marriage before 28 year .If you still be a single , your charming will be fade away after that age .That is to say , it will become difficult to find the person you are looking for .
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@zaihezhinan (327)
• China
12 Apr 09
i think the first is sexy, beautiful is important, because you need live every day with her. you should like to see her, so beautiful is first.
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@happy2009 (330)
• China
12 Apr 09
I think the one who can be a friend is the best one .
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@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
13 Apr 09
Marriage,three steps:one,friends;two,lover;three,spouse and friends
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
13 Apr 09
I have been married for two years.after 10 days it will be my wedding anniversary.I looked forward to see my right girl three years ago,but she had not appeared until we met each other in 2006.this is lucky thing for me.after then we talked each other about life and work.one year later I decided to marry her.now we have a lovely baby.I love her,I love my life.
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@happy2009 (330)
• China
13 Apr 09
I'm so glad to see that ! Gold bless you .and good wishes to your family
@Tanya0630 (4)
• China
13 Apr 09
I will finish my stdudies and leave university this year. Maybe, I will take consideration of marriage when my jop is right for me and steady. Sometimes, I do not know what the marriage means for me. But, I must do it, no matter a burden or a happy life.
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@happy2009 (330)
• China
13 Apr 09
Hi, Must be a happy life ! you should face it carefully ,come into the marriage with your Mr right ,and pay more attention to the family ,I think you will enjoy it for one life,Good luck for you dear.
@feathers26 (865)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
I think your age is the best time
to get married because you already have
experience in life, you are already matured
and can handle married life.
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
well this is not an easy question. personally i don't think i want to get married at all. however, if one wants to get married, i'd say do it either early or late. early as in just coming out from school. get married and have children before starting to build a carrier. this way, you get to spend a lot of time with your children as your career is still at the beginning. otherwise, get married when you are at a certain level in your career and can afford to spend time away from work. either way, you can spend more time with your family. cheers
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
12 Apr 09
for me it depends not on the age but the maturity of the person...if you are already 40 or 50 but you think and act like child, why would you be in a serious commitment right? if you think you are mature enough and you found the right man/woman for you then go ahead...but if not and you will just settle just because most of your peers are married or because your girl/boyfriend like to jump on the next stage of your relationship, then think again a thousand times..
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@Fadolf (545)
• Slovenia
12 Apr 09
I think the best time to get married is when someone feels like doing it. There isn't right time. Maybe there are "popular years" when people get married, but it doesn't mean that you have to follow them. After 30 years you should have your own apartment, your car, your freedom and when you have it all then you are ready, and in my opinion when you have things I have mentioned you are ready to get married. But, I don't think that we have to get married before our 30th birthday... Happy mylotting and take care!
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@happy2009 (330)
• China
12 Apr 09
Hehe ,you are so strict with yourself ,but that's your way ,Thanks for your response,and good luck !
@sayh123 (150)
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
Some people said that age doesn't matter as long as you love each other and care both of you. So for me in terms of age, I really don't care as long as I've married in such a good person.So before you married in a person you must choose a real guy, and also you know about their positive and negative traits..
So good luck.
@libramillie (191)
• Ireland
12 Apr 09
Marriage is so happy in one's whole life in my mind,so we shouldn't take it for granted,before marriage,we must think it carefully,some of us because haven't find our own suitable Mr right,some of us because we are afraid to marry a man,some of us because we have our own boyfriend,but due to the economic condition,so we can't marriage.i think only if all the conditions are ready that we girls can have a marriage,including the boys.Lack one of the conditions,we can't marriage,if we do this,i think we can't happy after marriage.We must pay great attention to marriage,we can't take it for granted.
@happy2009 (330)
• China
12 Apr 09
Yes ,you're right ! everyone should treat their marriages seriously . thanks !
@wildcat48 (779)
• United States
14 Apr 09
HI ,happy2009, i dont know i got married when i was 16 but i wish ,that i waited tell i was older.
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
14 Apr 09
If you want to have children it is better to marry earlier than later. A young woman should definitely spend a little time in the world before committing to a husband. If possible she should spend some time away from home because in the modern world it is not always a good idea for her to go from her father's house to her husband's. It is important to establish an identity other than that of someone's daughter, sister, lover, wife.
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@fasyahime (629)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 09
i have no desire to get married and become slave to men..i mean you have to ask his permission if you want to go anywhere and to take care a children..what if there a divorce,and he doesn't want to take responsible of the child..i have bad experience from seeing my mom's broken marriage..i prefer to be single until i die..huhu
@wxo200345 (101)
• China
14 Apr 09
love has to do with fate,the marriage depends on the mature love. so there is no need to define a clear time to have a marriage,when you find you want to wed with your partner, then get marriage.
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@tails88 (135)
• United States
13 Apr 09
well, i'm not sure, but i know i'd like to get married in my mid or late 20s. but it really depends on who you're with, it doesn't matter if you get married in your late 20s or your 40s. But i know many of my old classmates (im 20) who are getting married, have married, or are having kids, and it kinda bothers me that so many of them are in such a rush to grow up. You should have your fun in your early 20s, and then settle down. But at least give a couple years to have fun, else you may regret not having any fun later in life.