You understand yourself ?
By ptc1990
@ptc1990 (21)
China
April 12, 2009 4:27am CST
In all one's lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of.
When you are going upwards in life you tend to overestimate yourself. It seems that everything you seek for is within your reach; luck and opportunities will come your way and you are overjoyed that they constitute part of your worth. When you are going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself, mistaking difficulties and adversities for your own incompetence. It's likely that you think it wise for yourself to know our place and stay aloof from worldly wearing a mask of cowardice, behind which the flow of sap in your life will be retarded.
To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be asober realist-- aware of both one's strength and shortage. You may look forward hopefully to the future but be sure not to expect too much, for ideals can never be fully realezed. You may be courageous to meet challenges but it should be clear to you where to direct your efforts. That's to way so long as you have a perfect knowledge of yourself there won't be difficulties you can't overcome, nor obstacles you can't surmount.
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@athmos (2)
• Portugal
13 Apr 09
ups and downs in fife are something all of us experience. nevertheless over- or underestimation should not be influenced by those. aquiring and maintaining a calm state of mind should help stay focussed on goals no matter the obstacles. this emptiness will also lead to understanding of ourselves.
@rocketsky (1013)
• China
13 Apr 09
i dont quite understand myself and sometimes i think some other people know me better than i know myself.
i am a person with complex mind:)
i will try to understand myself :)