How do you know if a natural flirt is actually interested in you?
@jayda_j927tijs (2893)
Hong Kong
April 12, 2009 11:57pm CST
This guy I am interested in is a very natural flirt but I can be too. How do I know if he is actually interested in a relationship? He has a lot of female friends and I have a lot of male friends. I see him hug others all the time and he is touchy by nature too. He sleeps on my shoulders, gives me back rubs, and runs his fingers through my hair. How should I read that as?
3 responses
@krupesh (2608)
• India
13 Apr 09
Just treat him as a flirt.I think you both make a good combination as you also is a natural flirt.Do you think that he will be serious with you?No till he stops flirting there is no serious realtionships with flirts.Better search for another one you just flirt with him.
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@jayda_j927tijs (2893)
• Hong Kong
13 Apr 09
I agree,but this guy is really hot,kinda bad in a way which is the kind of guy i'm into.Although I know me and him ain't going nowhere,but i'm always fall for his look and the way he treats me,I think sometimes we/me like to live in fantasy.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
13 Apr 09
If your mindset is just like what you are talking , then there is no point in thinking any other way.Just go on flirting till you find it boring.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Hi cutie jayda! Hmm.. That's quite difficult. Why don't you try to distance yourself from him then maybe he'd run after you. It could mean that he can't afford to lose you. Try to be a little bit flirty too with other guys at his presence maybe he'll get jealous. A flirty guy just won't care if you're with someone unless he has feelings for you.
@jayda_j927tijs (2893)
• Hong Kong
17 Apr 09
I don't know if i'm obsessed or what,I don't even know if that's love or lust. But one thing for sure.I kinda feel vain just being around him.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
13 Apr 09
I would consider that "chancing!" I'm pretty malicious when it comes to very touchy guys and I just kind of avoid them.
Im usually not the type who attracts guys like that. So far the guys who have been let's just say, 'got attracted' to me were usually the more behaved ones.