my hubby says.....................

Hehehe I've hear a lot of men say that too. That women are hard to argue. Maybe they say that because women are known to be fickle minded. Women can change their minds easily and mostly because we are more moody than men. But I don't believe that we are hard to argue. Women nowadays are just more open minded and expressive and would say whatever they want to say. I think you're husband just don't want to argue with you cause he knows you're right hehe. Ciao!

arguing with females is useless,they never see our point of view I don't think that it's that we don't see their point of view. I think that male and female logic is just different, and sometimes, male logic just makes no sense. Female logic doesn't have to make sense, we are women and WE understand it. That is all they need to know.*LOL*

i wonder why he said never argue things has to be discussed with your mate thats all it is to it.arguing never solves anything any way.if two people are argueing soeone is not listening.discussion should be mild in temper.

Since females are usually right I do agree with his statement! LOL....

It's really difficult to win when you're wrong, right?

I think it's not right. But, I admit that most females are childish. But, it's because we just wanted to be pampered by our special someone unlike males, their pride is to0 high, they always want to win an argument, even at the cost of a relationship. Me and my boyfriend is like that. That's why I just understand everything and think that it is better to lose an argument and win a relationship.

Riya! I am also a husband and if I may agree with your husband..........LOL! (Pl. do not get angry....). Actually, God has made man and woman different human beings and their thinking patterns are dissimilar because of their genetics. A man and a woman will think differently on a particular point/event or an issue. Their thoughts cannot be on the wavelength. I normally do not like to argue with anyone and also with my better half. I know that I can defeat her through my logic and justification, however, she does not concede her defeat and when she feels that she is going to lose the argument, she would say - "it is useless to argue with you...." An argument is like two paced knife, it could be tilted towards any side and no one wins in an argument. I wrote a small article on the subject, if you get an opportunity, please check this out: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/689771/how_to_win_an_argument.html?cat=44

they might think they've won, but they will be sorry!

Dont you know that husbands are always right?

I don't think that's always right, but I know as a female I like to have my own way, whether it be the right way or not! I'm working on that though. So is it true? Sometimes. Lol not all the time though.

it may be useless but they sure do alot of it. lol.

No I don't think he is right cause it goes both ways.You can't argue with some women and can't argue with some men.

Open mindedness in any discussions tread to a clean discussion....I mean when there is mutual understanding between both the communicators there is no question of arguement. And about the myth that its hard to argue with ladies, its that generally men lose their patience arguing wid women over silly things.... Nev@ to hurt any gals over here!!! ~Cheerio~

As a male, in my experience there is no point in arguing with a woman...none...And not to be sexist or anything, because maybe I have just had the worst luck in the world, but no matter how right you are, or no matter how factual your argument is, it's never right...Ever....And normally, the fact that you even decided to argue with them will haunt you for the remainder of your day, if not week/month...what have you.... AND! What's funny, is if you take the "never argue" approach...it gets you in trouble as well... There is no winning...

lol..I've heard a lot of men say that....but personally in my case, I feel that it's useless to argue with my husband because he wants to win and will try hook or crook to win. Not that I'm very successful at not arguing (short tempered person myself), but that's how I see it.

only if he is wrong. if the man is right I hardly bother myself trying to win an argument, but if he is right and has no part in what happens, I will actually admit it. I've met men that think they are superior probably because they have worked for so long or they were raised like that. I even met men like these online, playing online games or chatting. Now these men, I won't give them any feeling of superiority or righteous. They would surely call me names, talk behind my back with their friends or whatever but I will not change my stand. They are good playing backstabbing, gossiping and yet calling women as worst gossipers. What they forget is that the same people they gossip with, will do the same to them. That's what backstabbing is all about. There are women good in this too. Bad thing is I'm not, but I don't want to be like them anyway. I wouldn't let women like that win either.

Of course, it is completely useless arguing with females. There are few exceptional females who can understand stuffs. I have read lot of books about psychology. They say that "DO NOT ARGUE WITH FEMALES". And "DO NOT ASK FOR A SUGGESTION FROM MALES". What you say people?

my hubby says the same but he says its because women have an answer for everything and arguing runs through our blood. i guess that is why most lawyers are women. my hubby was also a mamas boy but i think she gave him that advice.

Women are more emotional than men, if you argue with them, it involves logic, they are paradox from each other, so I do agree with your father-in-law's comment, hehe~

Men from what I have experienced never want to be involved in drama of any kind. Like, EVER.lol And if we face the music, most of the time women are a tad bit more dramatic than guys are, and thats normal. But when a guy fights with a woman, women naturally get more emotional, and the guys dont feel like their opinion will even count for anything because the girl is already freaking out, so they think it's just best to let it fall where it may and leave it alone. So maybe its not that they think they wont win, they just know the path to winning is not worth the effort. LOL