Can best friend turns enemies
By suveer35
@suveer35 (98)
India
April 13, 2009 1:04pm CST
Have you all ever experienced this ???????have your one time best friend turned to enemy.with me yes we were like friends for almost 10 long years and suddenly some minunderstanding happened in between us and he left aside our 10 year long friendship and didnt even tried to listen to me!!!!!!!!I felt really bad !I still miss him!!!!!!!!
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6 responses
@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
13 Apr 09
im sorry to hear that dear.but this has happened to me but i was lucky that my friend and i made up after a few months.hopeful there will come a time where your friend will forgive you.i hope all is not lost.try and tell your friend is it worth the loss of your 10 year friendship?and try giving it sometime.good luck and god bless.
@versio9 (329)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
I've never actually had a best friend of mine who turned into my enemy, though I've had some friends who became somewhat annoying that I try stay away from them lately. xD But I think it's possible for bfs to turn to enemies. One cause I can think of is love. Fighting for someone, etc. :D (just like in the movies, haha)
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@suveer35 (98)
• India
13 Apr 09
Hi versio,its really good that you never turned you friends into enemy because its the worst thing.and as far as annoying is concern it happens in every relation as if you love someone you care for some one you will obviously have differences between yourself and people you care or love........
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
13 Apr 09
Best friends can become enemies for all sorts of reasons. I lost one of my best friends after being friends for years too. Mostly it was my fault though. She has a crush on this guy but she didn't have a chance with him. A year or so later I ended up spending time with him and we fell in love. She got weird with me after that. Then when I had to move out of state to go with him for his job she wrote me a letter and told me to have a nice life, but in a sort of mean way like she was ending our friendship because I was moving away. So I wrote her a letter back and because my feelings were hurt I said some pretty mean things to her. We haven't spoken since.
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@suveer35 (98)
• India
13 Apr 09
Hi ravinskye,its really sad to hear that but what I think is that there are always misunderstandings which give rise to such problems between two friends and talking to each other can sort out this problem....anyways keep making friends in future and Enjoy your life because life without friends is like lamp without oil.........
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
14 Apr 09
I had a friend since grade school, and ended up married her brother. After years of a bad marrage my husband and I separated, because of this my friend and I do not talk to each other no more than we have to.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
ones friends always friends they say let time takes its course I know if he is your real friend he will came back and renew the friendship he has with you....
Maybe at that time he was just hurt of what have happened between you but and him but for now let time pass or make something that will bring him back.....
I do wish you and him will be ok my friend....
