Shaking hands in church

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During mass we give each other the sign of peace by shaking each others hands. I hate this part of mass and remember a time before when we didn't do this at all. At first we used to look around and say to the people around us "peace be with you". Then they started with the hand shakes. Both my husband and I, have a germ phobia - we would shake each others hands but don't like touching anyone else. I caution this is a bit gross but once in church, there was a guy behind us that was coughing and sneezing all over his hands. At one point he made nose blowing sounds - my husband turned and looked at him, just as he was wiping his snotty hands on his jacket. Ewwwww !!! My husband turned to me and said "whatever you do, DO NOT shake that mans hand" and briefly explained why. It was long before that day, that both my husband and I stopped shaking hands but on that day, we felt even more justified. I wish they would get rid of the handshake during mass.