is having a baby, a fulfillment of a woman?
By jcbelle
@jcbelle (152)
Philippines
April 14, 2009 4:44am CST
I can say that, having my baby is a fulfillment of being a woman. It makes me complete. A lot of women experiencing crisis of not having a baby of their own. It really depress them and has a psychological effect on them. Some would think that their husbands would leave them if they can't give a baby. That is why, some has to divorce their wives for that reason.
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@cbhomework (545)
• Malta
14 Apr 09
I think that having a baby is a wonderful experience for the mother and the father. Obviously a woman looks at giving birth in a whole different matter since she has bonded with her child for 9 months before. So yes it is a fulfillment for me, however I don't think that a woman without a child is not fulfilled.
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 09
I totally agree with what you said, I think it's really a fulfillment of woman. I just became a mother less than two months ago, I'm holding my baby right now. It's hard to express what the feeling is to become a mother, I can just tell my friends that it really completes my life. I always think that this is one thing I want to do in my life -- having baby, otherwise I'd think mi life is incomplete. Having baby is really a gift and taking care of him, seeing him grow up is a joy.
@gracetreyes (529)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
YES i am a mom and it completes me. It is a real blessing. Not every one has the capacity to bear a child. One more fulfillment is to let them grow as what God desires them to be. We are caretaker of our children, we must love them unconditionally. We must raise them to best as we can. But we must not forget our husband, for we woman are the wind beneath their wings.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
14 Apr 09
Giving birth is such a miracle and a blessing. Sad to say, some women don't see it as a fulfillment but a mistake. They abort their baby just because they are not ready to be mothers. Although I feel sorry for those who had miscarriage, or unintended abortion, and those who just couldn't conceive due to health problems.
Fulfillment can come in many forms. Some celibate women find their fulfillment in their career, or vocation, or mission.
I salute and give honor to mothers all over the world! :-)
@PinkyPosh (226)
• Canada
14 Apr 09
Yea I agree with this. This is a wonderfuil gift for a woment that God has given.
But another thing is that, it is not only a fulfillment for just the women alone, It is a fulfillment for a husband and wife as well.
Even men feel so proud when they become a father.