Have you lost touch with a friend after the school was over?

I'm a freshman now ,and I'm very happy that many old school friends often send short messages to me or some telephone me since we left school.Because we are far from each other ,we cannot often make a phone.But I have to admit that I have lost touch with many friends,even those close ones in school.In fact,I think those friendships are the purest in our life,and we should cherish them.However,we ourselves have our own work to do everyday,maybe we really don't have so much time to contact every one.But we can greet them from time to time and let them know you still remember them .When we spend our vacation ,we gather together to enjoy ourselves.

Yes, I have lost contact with many friends that I have in high school. I didn't do it on purpose, it's just happend. We all got recruited to the army, and the connection between us has lost.

yes i have lost touch with some friends from highschool, not imediatly after finishing highschool...a few months after i don't miss them i miss beeing in highschool... :)

Hi bumba I'm sorry that you had lost touch to some of your friends, getting into college sometimes does that. When I went to college I still kept in touch to my besties through snail mails lol but after a few years since they got busy with studying and so was I, we weren't able to do so. I wasn't able to get into any of the reunions either till some of my classmates in High school went to other countries either for a job or to be with their families who live abroad. Even up to now we rarely talk but the only difference is that we can communicate easier through the internet. We try to send out msgs on a website that we are all members of... you might know that. But yeah, they have their own families and work to attend to most of the time and I'm too busy at work, too... But we do try because keeping friendship is important to people's lives. Maybe you can try asking some of your common friends on how to contact your other friends. You can try asking their current emails so that you can all converse through it when you all have time in between studies or on vacations... hugs... much luck to you... Happy Easter!!!

I do, very much so because the new friends that i have in college are soooo UNLIKE my old friends...I think it's because of their age and that they're matured and all so most of the times, i miss my old friends and the crazy, whacky fun times that we had. Because everyone is so busy with their own stuff now....We hardly go out and have fun yer know...But we do still keep in touch...you know like chatting and those stuff...ohwells, i guess it happens...

Ye,i have such an experience.After my graduation from college,i fell my cellphone and broke it.From then on,one of my best friends disappered from my side.Now,i have lose contact with him for almost five years.Fortunately,i found his imformation from the alumni,and i left my QQ and phone number.I really hope to get contact with him.

yes, i have been in touch with my friends even after school was over.. and even now that we are working for 7 years already. :) i guess it was just the communication that is important.. always keep in touch. i have not been talking with few of my friends i have made in highschool and even in my college days, but those are the friends whom i am not really close with.

well yes i do miss some of my friends and sometimes i find them here and there if you want to find them well not all the time but you can go to some social networks my girlfriend has found several of her old friends and some other people have to you can use facebook or search on myyearbook or myspace there are lots of ways out there that are free you don't have to pay for the social networks and this is a great place to try and fin them if you want to but anyways good discussion

Yes I have it was after junior high school, 8th grade, my best friend since pre k and i weren't talking because something that hurt him in junior high, we didn't talk for months. He just killed himself last year.

I am in the same stage as you are. I am in the university level and i really miss my school days and my school friends alot. I have lost contact with alot of them. I want to go back into those days. The best days of my LIFE!!!

Well it has happened with me in the past. I also lost contact with some of them due to busy college life and also because of shifting. But some of my school friends are still in touch with me through internet and mobile phone. After this lesson I am always meeting my college friends even after completing my graduation. So at least I don't have to regret about it in the future.

there're quite a few friends I lost contact with. I can't find any way to get in touch with them anymore. I really miss them too much. Especially for those girls I once liked so much but never had I confessed to with my affection on them! If the god would like to give me another chance to turn back the time, I think I would definitely cherish the opportunity and show out my affection clearly.

You still have chance to keep contact with them. Don't regret later! Contact them right now! If you are still in contact with some old friends, maybe they know some of who have lost contact with you. I have lost touch with some of friends for almost 16 years, it is a bit difficult to keep in touch with them again, but you know, if I insist to show them my sincerity to keep our friendship, I think we still can be friends again. But I am definitely busy at the moment with my business, so to keep contact with the lost-touch friends maybe a bit impossible to me right now.

Unfortunaltely I must say that I lost contact with most of my school friends. It's really strange that people that are close do not make an effort to re establish some contact. In the modern society where there are many tools for communication, it seems people get isolated from their friends. I miss some of my old friends. Nowadays most people need to work hard and there is few available time for our family, kids, there's always a lot of things to do at home...when we have time we go to watch TV, or something like that. I feel responsible as well for losing contacts with my school friends.

Yes, there are many friends whom I have not seen after passing from school. I was very good friend with many of them. For some I have met them after many years. it feels really good.

Yes, I have. I even lost touch with some of them before I finished school due to moving a couple of times. As I ended up going to a different school than they did I lost touch with them. But thanks to the Internet I have reconnected with several of them and am looking for more.

I missed my old school friends and our old school days.I am still in touch with some of them and few are my very good friends but lost track of other friends since I move out from my town to a city for my job.I don't even have their contact number or any email addresses to keep in touch of them.I miss them too.School days was the best days of my life.I miss my old teachers,my old school buildings, our school canteens etc.Whenever I go back home,I always visit my old school.It makes me feel good cherishing the old school memories and friends.Good day and thanks for the post!

I lost too,but many of them were live close to my village.at most of time we all together with playing basketball.so It doesn't matter whether lost contact with them.

Hi Bumba, i was graduated from college 2 years from now. I already lost contact with most of my classmate. But we have our own community, so if you want to find someone, you post a question there, so one from my class who is close with that classmate will pass his/her information to me. But since we have primary school, middle school, high school classmate, i still lost a lot of their contacts. Sometimes feel sad about it.

I am happy I've lost touch with my ex-classmates. I wasn't one of them. They had a differnt lifestyle than me. They were boring and they didn't want to be an unite class. Everybody was on his own and that is why we've lost touch with other ex-classmates.