Who do you quarrel with most?
By asianwind
@asianwind (365)
Philippines
12 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 Apr 09
Hi! Asianwind!
I do not believe in quarrelling. I believe that quarrelling with someone makes us uneasy and guilty conscious. Quarrelling with someone may take away our peace of mind and it may raise our blood pressure, too. I like to remain calm in most of the circumstances, however, I also sometimes lose my cool. If I have to precisely answer your question then my answer is that it is my better half, with whom quarrel takes place and it goes for few minutes only. After that we both become normal has as nothing happened.
@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
14 Apr 09
I guess that person would have to be the love of my life. He isn't my boyfriend, but we date. I guess that is what you can call it lol. Anyway, even though I only get to see him at length maybe once or twice a week, when we get together we always find something to argue about. It may be the word he is trying to use, or a statment I made that he didn't like. We don't get down and dirty, and there are no hurt feelings afterwards usually. For the most part, we enjoy having great debates, even though from the outside it looks and sounds like a flat out fight lol.
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@asianwind (365)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
Hi there!
That is so sad.. Maybe you guys should take a breather before you could something that you would regret later on...right?
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@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Aww, its not as bad as that. We are just two dominant people that like to be right. I am usually the one to fall silent or just stop talking about the subject if it seems like feelings are about to be hurt. But, even though if you are looking at the situation from the outside it looks like an argument, we are actually having fun with it, and just want to best the other one.
This is something I actually like; with my children's father, we would argue heavily, and nothing seemed to be solved. However, with this guy we always eventually come to an understanding. Even though we are yelling, we are listening as well, and taking in the other person's side. So when I "argue" with him, even if I don't win, I still feel validated because he always takes my side into account, something my children's father never did.
@vsganesh87 (842)
• India
15 Apr 09
I quarrel with my father and college mates . I also quarrel with people who try to
over-impose me. I get irritated with the people who show off even when they make
mistakes.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Well, to tell you the truth, i almost NEVER quarrel with my girlfriends, well maybe partly because it would be too weird to face each other later on, and secondly i think we aren't that much of a 'close friends' so arguing would just ruin that chance for us to be closer friends? So i guess i probably argue with my bf alot because there's just so many things for me and him to argue about, sometimes even about the most trivial matters ever...hahahaha ^_^
Well, he almost ALWAYS think he's right, and sometimes i always think i'm right, ohwells, we all have that bit of ego is all of us. ^_^
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@prncesfrmheaven (452)
• United States
17 Apr 09
There you are!!!
I quarrel more with my partner. LOL I am not much of a fighter but will definitely stand up for anything I believe in. She likes to argue sometimes and I just go along with her. This usually calms the situation. I do have a bad attitude though when people make me mad so I try to control that.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
Well i usually quarrel with former girlfriends because they just won't listen to me when i am after was for their own good. They're thinking that i am getting in their way. You know, i'm the type of person who hates seeing people getting taken advantage of and there's this one former girlfriend of mine who are too giving that i see people or friends taking advantage of her generosity. I keep telling her that people are already fooling her and she's needs to learn to say no sometimes.
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
well.. i often have quarrel with my boyfriend. but i dont usually talk when we argue. i tend to give him cold shoulders and i keep silent all the time and that pissed him and forced him to say sorry. hahaha!! but we dont really fight, theres no major issue to argue with. those are petty quarrels that i initiates to have sweet moments with him.. hehe
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@vinslounge (1295)
• India
14 Apr 09
I quarrel with Auto drivers who charges an exhorbidant amount.
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@justmeh (188)
• Philippines
24 May 09
Well,I do quarrel a lot with my brother who's elder than me. But whenever we have fight,I always lose to him cause i know for a fact that his of course a guy and no matter what I do he's a lot stronger than I am so I better cry myself after losing. The commonly cause of our fight is that he always tells me what to do and keeps on nagging like my mother even if what he nags is not true and that what I hate about him. He never listens to my side so sometimes unintentionally I raise my voice and the more I insist my opinion the more he gets angry so I would just quit.
