favoritism

Philippines
April 14, 2009 1:02pm CST
who and when did it start? does the Higher Being also has a favoritism that's why this kind of trend started? as much as i want to share the good and bad events related to this word that has happened to me today. i end up annoyed and wished the earth would just swallow me. i hate this feeling, really. lol. can i scream a little? AAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! there are just moments where sometimes, everything is fair. from intelligence to physical appearance to whatever so that everyone could have a fair way of whatever they desire in their life. i just love and hate the word sometimes. but most of the times, good favors has never been on my side. just venting. lol. do you feel me guys??? LOL. do you have your moments also where you wish it would be just fair and not the other way around.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Apr 09
not moments all the time. i hate to see people show favortism . i always think of my mother when i think of this. she made such a difference in the way she treated my sons. it was always a bone of contetion betwwn us. i could take it if she was hurting me but i don't like anybody mistreating my sons even if they are grown.
• Philippines
16 Apr 09
i have never experience what you've had but i have always been a witness to some of my friends where one of their parents mistreats them. i have even one friend who confided me before that because of how her mom treated her, she will not come back. but she has to because of her grandmother. life is never easy really. but it goes on. =(
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
16 Apr 09
i'm glad u haven't. it's not a good feeling. i can relate to your friend. i would have never turned my back on my grandpaerents. they were wondeful.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
14 Apr 09
Reality is that no where is it in the rules of life that fair is part of the game. No matter how much you wish it's not going to fair to you or anyone else. It may seem to be more fair to others but you never see their lives from the inside so you can't really tell. Each of us is here to learn the lessons we need to grow so don't waste time looking at others just live for yourself.
• Philippines
16 Apr 09
how i wish you are right in front of me, savy. telling me that. because i have never been so good at listening. lol. i don't wanna feel deprived or something but i always end up comparing myself to others, really. because they have something i want. lol. i wish i'll get by. ahahaha!
• Philippines
21 Apr 09
Hate to break it to you, but everyone does even the Higher Being does play favorites, too. It's all there in the Bible.