Do you mind if your men lie to you?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
April 14, 2009 9:03pm CST
Do you mind if your men lie to you? As long as he come home with you, and he willing to weave a story to make you happy, and always come back to you at the end? Some women might just accept this kind of men, and they found no problem with it. That is the version of love they saw in life. I couldn't do it. Nonetheless lie is a lie. I expect the person will honest with me. What about you?
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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20 Feb 13
It is when they are caught out and they then try to lie when you show them they are the one that lie, the trust has all gone then.
I feel that there are times that I do not trust a few people including the person that I am married to.Just want to catch one small lie now and he is gone.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
4 Aug 12
Me too, I don't like men lying to me. Even if it's just a small lie or a white lie. They say that if he can lie about small things, then he can lie about big things too. I don't like that.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
15 Apr 09
A relationship should be based on honesty, faithfulness, trust and respect. Any man who lies to me is not giving me any of those things so, no, I would not tolerate lies from him. Sometimes my husband doesn't tell me things right away...like if he stopped at the bar for a drink on the way home or if he closed the shop early and went riding with a buddy before coming home but he always comes clean before the night is through.
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
15 Apr 09
yes,i do mind if my man will lie to me.i expect the same honesty from him the way i have been very honest and faithful to him.being lied to really does hurt at times,it makes me wanna question my trust towards that person.i guess i can forgive him once but once done again,well that's another story.forgiving him over and over again will only mean that i am allowing him to do that to me.
@reds08 (305)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 09
I can't accept any lie from the man i love eventhough he has a good reason to do that. If he really loves me and cares about me, he will not make me sad by telling lies. When he lies to me it means that he destroys the trust i have gave to him. From the beggining, i stated to him that we have to be honest each other.