whoz more possessive????

i dont think it has to do with gender. i think it has to do with maturity i've been married to 4 very possesive men and it only made me want to get away from the childish AH's. thank god i finally had a mature, sweet, confident man. only problem is, i lost him to cancer. anyway, my sons gf and many other women i've known are also very immature and push men away daily by what my mom used to call smothering them its a sure way to soon loosing someone.

Diffently guys they always think they are in charge and everything including you is theirs!!

I don't think it's in the gender. I believe that it depends on the person's attitude and how he/she perceives himself/herself. If the person has a very insecure personality, I guess he's/she's more prone to be possessive.