Gay for pay...is it ok?

Singapore
April 15, 2009 10:28am CST
Ok, so I came across this term "gay for pay" and what it means is that straight guys go gay and they are paid for doing so. From what I gather, it is said that they can earn more money than doing scenes with women. Superficially speaking,Guys, will you do "gay for pay" knowing that it will earn you big money and in turn you can provide for your family/children/girlfriend better? How would you answer to your partner if she found out?Girls, would you still be with your guy if you found out he was "gay for pay", although he did it with the intention to provide you with a better life? Would you be ok with it knowing he is doing it with men rather than with other women?
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• United States
15 Apr 09
I would think that any man I would date would not do anything with either but definitely not with men. And if he were doing it with women I'd be uncomfortable but if he came to me asking what I thought about going "gay for pay" I would tell him that I do not want him going through it just to provide for me.
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• Singapore
15 Apr 09
Awww! That is sweet. I know that some girls would allow it just so they can be comfortable. Personal choice I guess?
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@born1989 (177)
• India
15 Apr 09
no i won't do so.whatsoever may happen. how will i face my wife or fiance or my family people if they come to know about this. i m not interested in doing this.
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@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
16 Apr 09
When You mention "Scenes",I take it You're talking about the Adult Movie Industry,and therefore not just about Gay Male S€x workers outside of this environment? My initial thought was if someone is having S€x for Money,it's their choice both as a business decision and on the orientation of the Partners they choose.. but The Morality of an Actor or "Actor" doing Same S€x Scenes on screen while living in a Heterosexual relationship off set is too much of a Grey area for Me to Answer,(at least for the Pron "Actors"!)..Many Big screen stars have Gender Bending movie Roles under their belts,and it's taken as an affirmation of their range..Actually doing it on screen for better money could make some financial sense,but I wonder how much bi-curiosity would figure into the decision too..
@Adoniah (7513)
• United States
16 Apr 09
I would not go with someone who was doing it "for pay" straight or gay. There is no safe way. If your with me your with me. If there are money problems, we both get second jobs but not that kind of job!!!! Shalom~Adoniah
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
16 Apr 09
Gay for pay? No I would not be okay If my straight guy went gay for pay. I don't care what he had to say. There's no way, no, no, no way, that I could ever be happy with his decision. Now if times were really hard and he wanted to dance for pay. That would be different. But as far as him being with other men in an intimate sort of way. I gotta say it like Jennifer Hudson sings it. There's no way, no way!