My Husband Co-Signed For A Loan For My Step-Daughter
By MarleneDawn
@MarleneDawn (49)
United States
April 15, 2009 3:08pm CST
for a van at the credit union we use to establish her credit & of course to get a vehicle she needed. She kept being late for payments & hurting my husbands credit. We are financially having difficulties like most people. To keep her from ruining my husbands credit he is now paying the loan out of his pay checks & having her make payments to him which she is always a few weeks late getting them to him even, which is hurting us even more financially because with her doing this we can't even pay our own bills on time. We are doing good just to get our bills paid without this extra payment. Either way he's screwed. I've told DH she's not learning responsibility by him doing this, he knows that but he doesn't want his credit ruined in case we need to take out a loan ourselves. So in the meantime we're suffering & she has at least 2 more years to pay it off. I've told her to send in even $5 extra towards the principle to get it paid off sooner. Thing is they work a minimum paying jobs with her working around 32 hrs/weekly & her DH working around 20 hrs/weekly, they're on food stamps & TANF, yet they blow money like they have it to blow & can't pay her van payment on time. Which would you prefer to do? Let her make late payments hurting your credit or you pay it out of your pay check & not pay your own bills? By the way my step-daughter is 28 years old.
Marlene
1 response
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
15 Apr 09
First off I'd be furious!
Secondly, I would contact the credit union and explain what is going on and get any advice if they would just put the loan in her name or what could be done. Usually credit unions are pretty cool about matters, sometimes they can give you ideas that we would not know of.
But you are right they need to fall on their face and fall hard and your hubby needs to not sign off on anything further for them. It's always nice when the extras come first ahead of paying your bills and staying in your own fathers good graces.