First loves
@rhilovesnathan (39)
United States
April 15, 2009 11:05pm CST
Ok so this is for everyones first love. Think back to that very first time you've ever been in love. Where you remember wanting that person and nothing else. Where you would risk anything for that one person. So tell me. are you still with this person or did you lose that person? If you are still with that person are you happily married? have kids? how long have you been together? do you have alot of problems? And for those of you that lost that very first love, Do you still think about that person? Do you wish things would have went differently? How long were you with that person for? How old were you when you met this person? Was it hard for you to get over them?
Sorry for all the questions but i am recently having troubles with my first real love and i wanted to know how everyones first really worked out.
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10 responses
@TannerSite (698)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Hmmm... I need to read more opinions about it before I can really make a judgement of my own,
@Nancy312 (282)
• China
17 Apr 09
I'm now falling in love for the fist time with my boyfriend,almost for a year.But we are still feel sweety and honey,maybe it's not still for too long time.We are senior middle school classmates,but we fell in love after our graduation.It's strange,isn't it? I also think so,but i do not know why.Just feel that he treats me well,positive and motivated.But now i can not tell too much if after we are married.Just wish both of us can maintain this happness for long time even after marriage.
I think if there is problem occurs between you and your real love,communicate with each other first to solve the problem together.Wish you are fine,friend!
@rhilovesnathan (39)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Thats good to hear. I hope things stay good for you. Dont think negative about how things are going to turn out once you get married. keep the thoughts positive and im sure things will turn out great! he sounds like a good guy. thank you for your reply
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
16 Apr 09
I used to think my first love was the man I dated in college, but i know the honest to goodness love of my life was my most recent ex. He and I dated for 10 months and met online. I lost him, he ended things with me because he didn't see us working if we got married....but he is dating someone new now, so I have my own theories.
@rhilovesnathan (39)
• United States
17 Apr 09
thats horrible and im sorry to hear that that happened. i hope things get better for you. keep your head up! thanks for your reply
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 09
My first love was when i am 17 years old...Our relationship lasts 2 1/2 years. now its been 3 years since then. It was so beautiful and full of surprises and excitements. But in the end, I have to let him go for some reason I can't tell. Its not about cheating or fighting. We end it the good way. After some time, I had a very tough moment to admit that we were not together anymore, I cried a lot, screaming out his name, remembering all the memories we had. It was bitter that time. But time truly ease my pain. I must say, it took me 2 year to slowly fading my feelings towards him. After 3 years, I found another love and by that time my feelings towards my ex-bf is no more than a friend.
@rhilovesnathan (39)
• United States
17 Apr 09
Im happy to hear that it ended in a good way. And happy to hear that you have found another love and i hope that is going well for you. Thank you for your response
@sunhan (27)
• China
16 Apr 09
I was 20 years old when I meet her,she was so beautiful that time,so I feel I am a lucky man.Our relation lasted 3 years. we were full of excitement and sadness,we we gone to many nice places and play with together,some time we also fight each other.Even then we ended it in the good way.some time,I remember all the memories we had.It was my blessedness also was my pain.
@rhilovesnathan (39)
• United States
17 Apr 09
im sorry to hear that it had to end. but at least it ended on good terms. it sounded really nice. what i have is like that. we go to lots of nice places, we always have fun together and he always makes me laugh and feel good about myself. i love him with all my heart and i hope we can get past our troubles right now. thank you for your response!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I ended things with that person. He showed me that he could not be trusted and I would be better off without him. We were together for 4 years before I ended things. We had so many problems that it got to be too much for me and I needed to get away from him. I still think of him from time to time, but more of wondering how he is doing and if he is happy.
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
21 Apr 09
These situation are not forgettable at all. But all we know we all broken off from our first love. Overall first love is only attraction and nothing.
@sunhan (27)
• China
16 Apr 09
I was 20 years old when I meet her, she was so beautiful that time,so I feel I am a lucky man.our reltion lasted 3 years.we were full of excitement and sadness,we gone to many nice places and play with together, some time we also fight each other.Even we ended it in the good way.Some time I remember all the memories we had.It was my blessedness also my pain.
